ILLUSION OF EQUALITY 

Posted: April 8, 2017 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.

1. What a huge honor to be here to share with us. Thank you @dayus4heaven. #NoToDomesticViolence

2. Tonight I will be looking at our discourse from a perspective as a parenting coach. #NoToDomesticViolence

3. What I will be sharing tonight is an accumulation of experiences listening to my clients, #NoToDomesticViolence

4. Empirical observation and psychopathological inferences. #NoToDomesticViolence

5. I want to appreciate all the other speakers, their sessions were resourceful. #NoToDomesticViolence

6. While its very good we advocate for equally, while is very good to have laws that punish offenders… #NoToDomesticViolence

7. It’s important to note that Domestic violence is not the result of losing control, #NoToDomesticViolence

8. Domestic violence is intentionally trying to control another person. #NoToDomesticViolence

9. DM is intentional use of manipulative tools to gain control, a feat that has worked for the abuser over time. #NoToDomesticViolence

10. Let me share on two of the major root causes of domestic violence #NoToDomesticViolence

11. A dysfunctional community. #NoToDomesticViolence

12. The home is the first community a child is influenced to, hence responsible for shaping a child’s ideology. #NoToDomesticViolence

13. The child’s environment, which is a sub-set of the child’s community, #NoToDomesticViolence

14. Is also a major influence on how a child treats other human. #NoToDomesticViolence

15. How we treat our fellow humans is a reflection of our shared value system as a community. #NoToDomesticViolence

16. Domestic violence is an unveiling of the patterns learned during upbringing. #FaultyUpbringing #NoToDomesticViolence

17. All domestic violence is an ineffective way to communicate, which of course, got its root from the home. #NoToDomesticViolence

18. B.Ineffective communication- #NoToDomesticViolence

19. Because of being raised in a dysfunctional society, lot of children becomes Ill-equipped #NoToDomesticViolence

20. With how to effectively communicate their anger, hurt, pain or displeasure. #NoToDomesticViolence

21. Hence, the abusers project their hurt and unresolved issues on another human, #NoToDomesticViolence

22. Which manifest itself in form of physical abuse, emotional abuse, verbal abuse et al. #NoToDomesticViolence

23. Domestic abusers are carriers of unresolved issues, either from childhood, environment or emotional experience, #NoToDomesticViolence

24. Who just use others as symbol vehicle to pay back on their unresolved past. #NoToDomesticViolence

25. We all have a duty to empower our community (home) to treat all humans with dignity and respect, #NoToDomesticViolence

26. Irrespective of our cultural, religious or social affiliation. #NoToDomesticViolence

30. Parents should be intentional about the community the erect for their children and the life the need to model. #NoToDomesticViolence

31. Children should be taught emotional mastery and how to interprete life’s situations #NoToDomesticViolence

32. Parents, like all humans should seek effective means to communicate their displeasure or experiences of the past. #NoToDomesticViolence

33. The abuser and abused need help, to re-engineer the residue of their experiences, #NoToDomesticViolence

34. If we love enough to treat one another as ourselves, we wouldn’t want to hurt one another. #NoToDomesticViolence

35. I’ll stop here for tonight. Thank you for following

We want to appreciate Adeh Jones for those great nuggets shared on #Breakingbarriers. 
To your success, 

Adedayo Olabamiji 

Twitter): @dayus4heaven 

NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE 

Posted: April 8, 2017 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.

1. Hello y’all & thanks for having me on your platform to talk about an issue that’s now so pandemic-DV|#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

2. Definition of DV has been given earlier, sharing it again so that we address the full spectrum | #NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

3. DV affects everyone regardless of strata or education and can be perpetrated by all genders | #NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

4. DV affects not just the victims, but also family members, friends, co-workers, community at large |#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

5. Sadly, victims of DV often cite their children as a reason for staying in abusive relationships | #NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

6. Often we talk of the more obvious cases of domestic abuse –Physical & Sexual but neglect others | #NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

7. Psychological-Emotional-Verbal-Economic/Financial Abuse are also as insidious/DAMAGING to victims|#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

8. According to Craig Malkin, PhD, “many victims of DV suffer from post-traumatic stress syndrome, one symptom of which is dissociation..”

9. “DISSOCIATION creates such profound detachment from reality of the abuse that sufferers scarcely remember/are in DENIAL of being hurt..”

10.Dissociated victims often DON’T leave abusers because they aren’t psychologically present enough to process their pain/danger of abuse..

11. Often it would take a well-trained professional to do a strategic intervention which gets victims of abuse back into an ASSOCIATED state

12. In a nation like Nigeria with a social COGNITIVE DISSONANCE and skewed Religious/Cultural influences in some cases, DISSOCIATION is HIGH

13. This is why I encourage many religious orgs to have a formal network of professionally trained mental health professionals for referrals

14. Are you a VICTIM or PERPETRATOR of domestic violence? Here are some general definitions of each |#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

15. Physical abuse is more commonly talked about & often easily prosecuted; easier to gather evidence |#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

16. Sexual abuse in a relationship often fall under the grey areas as it is often difficult to prove|#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

17. Are you an unconscious victim or perpetrator of Financial abuse in your relationship? Self-check|#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

18. A quick note -during challenging economic conditions/recession, even healthy relationships need a lot of communication about finances..

19. During dating/courtship or even if an arranged marriage, I often suggest that couples “make money talk part of their pillow/date talk!”

20. Sometimes, a prospective spouse/partner may be seemingly “perfect” during courtship & victims of domestic violence fail to see any sign

21. In other instances, abusers begin early to show signs of a pre-disposition to abuse. Once you notice anything, do NOT ignore your gut!!

22. Lack of financial independence is often cited by victims of DV as a reason for staying on in it|#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

23. In societies without established laws/enforcement of child custodial rights/alimony, it affects choices of victims|#NoToDomesticViolence

24. I advocate starting early to teach financial independence to ALL children, especially GIRLS |#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

25. I also highly recommend all religious organizations involve professional subject matter experts to talk to couples BEFORE their marriage

26. Every faith-based org I work with, I encourage them to have an open door policy for professional intervention re domestic abuse cases.

27. Religious organizations, community leaders/cultural influencers are necessary stakeholders to eliminate/curb domestic abuse in society.

28. Relevant Laws are very important & Govt MUST provide good regulatory framework -however, IT is all geared more to ENFORCEMENT, post DV

29. Many cases where abusers use $/expensive gifts as control tools to “buy” their victim’s silence |#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

30. A Sign of DV – Emotional & Financial isolation; barring victims from pursuing careers/interests |#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

31. AGAIN, while dating/courting, it’s important 4 couples to discuss issues/expectations/boundaries|#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

33. Experts often refer to EMOTIONAL/Psychological abuse as the BIRTH PLACE of ALL other abuse types|#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

34. Psychological abuse involves using words OR using silence/malice to reduce self-worth of victims|#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

35. I recommend L. Bancroft’s book on Emotional Abuse-Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry & Controlling Men #NoToDomesticViolence

36. HOW do WE all curb Domestic Violence individually, as a Society/Community, as Govt Agencies? |#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

37. Skewed socio-cultural-traditional conditioning/religious beliefs are key factors abetting abuse |#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

38. Culture must be dynamic framework & evolves our interpretation of religion, beliefs, values. A static prism creates stagnation/injustice.

39. What WE condone (as a society-culture-group) simply persists. What society CONDEMNS, consistently/unequivocally DIES AWAY gradually/fast

40. ALL Genders should be taught a consciousness of personal boundary-setting, mutual respect, anger management, emotional guidance scales.

41. Prevention of DV starts with creating awareness on effective parenting to raise ALL kids with HEALTHY self-respect and clear boundaries

42. Prevention/curbing of DV involves creating awareness in educational/socio-cultural institutions |#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

43. Curbing DV entails educating religious leaders/community orgs on its causes, effects, solutions |#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

44. Prevention of DV-identifying/providing support 4 kids/adults who’re at risk esp if they witnessed abuse growing up|#NoToDomesticViolence

45. Organizations like @wholewomaninc & @wrapang carry out awareness programs with key stakeholders |#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

46. Refer to tweets on HOW TO CREATE SAFE SPACES for victims of DV by my colleague/fellow panelist, @SuperGirlTimidi |#NoToDomesticViolence

47. The basic foundation of safe spaces is EMPATHY –in our words, perceptions & judgments of victims|#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

48. As individuals/as a society, creating awareness to end the stigma around DV & decisions of victims to leave unsafe spaces = Critical..

49. Often, all abuse stems from INEQUALITY, insecurity, unhealthy mind space of “greater than” / “less than”. NASS should pass the #GEOBill

50. Educating a girl-child, in a patriarchal society, must expand to truly EMPOWERING her about finances, self-esteem/worth/boundary setting

51. Education/empowerment must also include the boy-child, to unlearn certain socially entrenched/socialized patterns of thoughts/behaviour

52. Societal shift needed-STOP shaming/blaming victims & rather hold perpetrators accountable for DV|#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

53. Victims of abuse, the children, their circle of friends and families need psycho-social support |#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

54. An area that’s often neglected is mandatory therapy & REHABILITATION of convicted or identified perpetrators of DV|#NoToDomesticViolence

55. How do we PRACTICE #NoToDomesticViolence using structured social, legal, systemic/regulatory frameworks/policies?|#NoToDomesticViolence

57. There’s a need to have the right legal/enforcement environment to curb DV. The VAPP law addresses some core issues |#NoToDomesticViolence

58. What are GAPS we must address as a society to create safer spaces & curb Domestic Violence? 1/2 |#NoToDomesticViolence #BreakingBarriers

59.  Need for co-ordination & integration of all the primary, secondary & inter-linked agencies in the value chain to curb domestic abuse|2/2

60. Govt participation -key stakeholder –NGOs/Faith-based groups must engage Govt persistently on deliverables/mandate/hold them accountable

61. Again, thanks for inviting me on your platform. My appreciation to all who engaged & retweeted AWARENESS IS KEY! We all CO-CREATE change

Thank you Juliet Kego for those insightful and expository  words shared on #BreakingBarriers.  

To your success, 

Adedayo Olabamiji 

Twitter : @dayus4heaven 

MAKING THINGS HAPPEN?

Posted: April 8, 2017 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.

Too many people spend their lives counting down the days until the weekend so they can bask in their temporary  …

Life either happen to you or you make like happen to you.   So how do you make things happen for yourself? Enough of complaining…. 👇👇
👉Keep the promises you make to yourself. I learned this one from Stephen Covey – we make little promises to ourselves all the time (“I’m going to stop working on weekends.” or “I’ll definitely get a workout in tonight.”) These promises are in fact more important to keep than the ones you make to your customers, your boss or your family.
Because private victories come before public ones.
👉Always be on a fast mood: If you’ve got a good idea, try to take some kind of action on it right away. Too often good ideas slip away, either due to momentum (it was exciting at the moment, but less so now) or just through forgetfulness. So when you have a good idea, send an email to a potential collaborator, sketch out some designs, or at the very least, make an Evernote note for the idea. 
👉If you’re achieving 100% of your goals, you aren’t thinking big enough. Only by really pushing yourself will you discover what you’re truly made out of. Whether it is a workout, a deadline, a business deal or a romantic partner, you’ve got to go out on a limb and reach for more than you think you can get.
👉When the right opportunity arises, seize it by the fucking throat. Once in awhile, a very special opportunity emerges – to travel somewhere, meet someone special, do something amazing. When you get that gut feeling that this is a big deal, do not hesitate to drop everything else you’re doing and pour all your energies into wringing that opportunity for everything it is worth.
Remember with God its people like us that succeed in life. 

To your success, 

Adedayo Olabamiji

BREAKING LOVE BARRIERS 

Posted: March 31, 2017 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.

​1. From  the beginning of time, poets and prophets have put their pens to parchment trying to describe the power&passion of LOVE #BreakingBarriers

2. No one has ever equaled Saint Paul’s description of love found in 1 Corinthians 13. #BreakingBarriers @iamkingsmithA @TBaarata @liveway

3.  Not Shakespeare, not Byron, not Shelley, not Keats, or even Browning with his magnificent “How so I love thee? ” #BreakingBarriers

4. Let me count the ways maybe you get my points:what does love look like? What does love feel like? #BreakingBarriers @julietkego @segalink

5. What does love sound like? Have we forgotten what genuine love truly is? Be thine self be true! #BreakingBarriers @bofiasdiary

6. Our lives are shaped by who love us and by those who refuse to love us. #BreakingBarriers @all4allNuel @TBaarata @Grace_Festus @liveway

7. These are my experiences and expressions about love!No joking around #BreakingBarriers @Antom_dapper @LaraKudayisi @OroAdunni @semiloore

8. If you’ve ever experience rejection & loneliness,you will appreciate & love others even when they don’t deserve it #BreakingBarriers 

9. Thinking through life and eternity have come to realise that without love you are spiritually dead. #BreakingBarriers @solaadio

10. What is spiritual about you when you can’t love your fellow human? In LOVE we grow! #BreakingBarriers @Ibilola_Amao @CHIDIMMAIDIKA

11. For those who have been through rejection or societal molestation can tell you what is mean not to be love. Painful! #BreakingBarriers

12. Your ability to break love barriers is a function of having clear knowledge of what love is not! #BreakingBarriers @SamAkinlotan @liveway

13. Maybe you don’t know or have close your eyes from the truth that love is not emotion. #BreakingBarriers @oyinkansolaMOR @oyinloyesunday

14. Love is not urge to merge or walk on the aisle. Don’t be desperate ! #BreakingBarriers @TBaarata @CHIDIMMAIDIKA @doctorkanayo @liveway

15. Love is not hormonal response to plunging neckline or short skirt. Mind your business! Fight lust of the eye. #BreakingBarriers

16. Love is not what you feel neither is SEX! watch out for Bozo your DESTINY can’t be sacrifice #BreakingBarriers @Lolo_cy @solaadio

17. Remember that your choice have consequences! Tried unconditional love yet? #BreakingBarriers @yinkanubi @all4allNuel @Hublife

18. Let me shock you by saying without LOVE you have no value. #BreakingBarriers @Antom_dapper @AmponsemJoshua @Iamoabraham

19. As a matter of fact, the world does not care what you know until they know that you care. #BreakingBarriers

20. Let me quickly bring to your awareness,what are your qualifier of love?Do you love others because they love you first? #BreakingBarriers

21. Do you love people because of your self expectation towards them? #BreakingBarriers

22. Or you are that person who love him or her because of wealth and affluence? That will not determine your joy in life! #BreakingBarriers

23. There is more to love than what you can think! Without love you are less than JUNK! Show some love #Breakingbarriers @JajaPhD @Ayourb

24. No mater who you are or become in life… Without love you are nothing. #BreakingBarriers

25. A bell is not a bell until you ring it, a song is not a song until you sing it. #BreakingBarriers @TBaarata @jide_martins

26. Love in your heart is not put there to stay, love is not love until you give it away. #BreakingBarriers @NonyeWrites @TBaarata

27. Do you know that love is Patient, Kind, loyal, is not rude, not self seeking and Love does not boast. #BreakingBarriers

28. Your task is not to seek for love,but merely to seek&find all the barriers within yourself that u have built against it #BreakingBarriers

29. Barriers sabotage our relationship because they keep us from being receptive to love. #BreakingBarriers

30. They keep us closed off, disconnected and responding from fear. Break them before they destroy YOU! #BreakingBarriers

31. At this junction,you need to take RESPONSIBILITY of ensuring no limitations to your love, a life without love is drain #BreakingBarriers

32. Responsibility means breaking down your wall by uncovering the barriers that have kept you from true love. #BreakingBarriers

33. It’s time for assessment! What are my biggest challenges in love relationships? #BreakingBarriers

34. What thoughts and beliefs frequently come up for me around love and men? #BreakingBarriers

35. What are my self sabotaging traits and characteristics that continue showing up in my love relationships? #BreakingBarriers

36. What type of men/women do I attract? What are their common characteristics, traits and values? #BreakingBarriers

37. Your fear about how your partner might respond to a sensitive topic keeps you from communicating openly with him. #BreakingBarriers

38. What are your major barriers to love? For every barrier you’ve identified, what’s one workaround to that barrier that you can practice?

39. Those who have a hard time accepting their own mistakes are often critical of others. #BreakingBarriers

40. b. In an attempt to protect themselves, they may be unaware that they are rejecting others before they can be rejected. #BreakingBarriers

41. Do you recognize any of these barriers in yourself? Love Barrier #1: Critical and negative beliefs. #BreakingBarriers

42. Be real with yourself&stop the self-hatred.Start to question your thoughts&beliefs&create space to appreciate who and what you are. #BB

43. Love Barrier #2: Holding on to old emotional wounds. #BreakingBarriers @Antom_dapper @bellajohn005 @phmcgillicuddy @kimgarst

44. b. Healing your old emotional wounds can take time and you can start right now. You got the magic! Take your time #BreakingBarriers

45. Love Barrier #3: Boxing yourself in.The effects of taking wise risks and stepping outside of your box #BreakingBarriers

46. You have the freedom in today’s world to live a miserable life or a happy life;no one can take that way from you #BreakingBarriers

47. Carefully study what’s working and what’s not working in your life. Evaluate your areas of focus! Make decision to #BreakingBarriers

48. Don’t be caged by your past relationships and experiences! Mistakes must be made so wisdom can be earned. #BreakingBarriers

49.  Life is too short not to express your love to others especially those who give you same genuinely. #BreakingBarriers @LovLikeJesu

50. You are FREE! Tell yourself it’s another season of LOVE! Intentionally make this decision today. Don’t be stuck! #BreakingBarriers

51. Get help where necessary and be open minded. Give it a try and experience massive results. #BreakingBarriers

52. Let go and let GOD!Remember with God its people like us that succeed in life. It’s a wrap fam #BreakingBarriers Thanks for the support
To your success, 

Adedayo Olabamiji 

RELATIONSHIP RED FLAGS 

Posted: March 31, 2017 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.

1. ​#Hi guys, thank you for joining me this evening on #BreakingBarriers @dayus4heaven

2. And thank you @dayus4heaven for inviting me on this platform. I am honoured, bro #BreakingBarriers

3. And before I go on, let me wish every woman here a Happy Women’s Day. It’s a great time to be a woman. #BreakingBarriers

4. So, this evening I am going to be talking about Red Flags in Relationships. It’s a topic I am happy to talk about today #BreakingBarriers

5. Many people don’t understand what they shuld look for in a prospective guy or girl because they are desperate for company #BreakingBarriers

6. Please do not get to that level. Irrespective of how old you are, you deserve to be happy. Therefore, caution is key #BreakingBarriers

7. How do you identify Relationship Flags? You need to be sensitive and observant in order to identify these things. #BreakingBarriers

8. Please do not get carried away by love or infatuation. Love is not enough to sustain your relationship at all. #BreakingBarriers

9. 1) Constant Disagreement. When you constantly disagree with someone you are dating or prospecting, then it’s a red flag #BreakingBarriers

10. When you are constantly at logger heads with your partner shows that your values are clashing. #BreakingBarriers

12. People don’t clash but their values clash. #BreakingBarriers

13. Your values are your principles, ethics and things you live your life by. #BreakingBarriers

14. So, your values are almost the most important thing in your life. #BreakingBarriers

15. So, you need to find out your top 10 values and also check for the compatibility in your partner. #BreakingBarriers

16. When your values are not compatible, there would be constant disagreement and clashes. #BreakingBarriers

17. 2) Lack of Respect for your Opinion. When your Bae has no respect for your opinion, then it’s a red flag. #BreakingBarriers

18. If your partner disregards your opinion, either by shutting you down or dismissing it, then they don’t respect you #BreakingBarriers

19. When you are with someone, they should count you important enough to respect what you have to say or contribute #BreakingBarriers

20. Lack of Mind Intimacy: A lot of people are only concerned about physical intimacy but they neglect Mind Intimacy #BreakingBarriers

21. Mind Intimacy is when someone stimulates your mind. You can relate with that person on a deeper level beyond sex #BreakingBarriers

22. Mind Intimacy would sustain your relationship beyond physical or emotion. #BreakingBarriers

23. 4) Lack of Emotional Connection: If you don’t connect emotionally with your spouse, then it’s a red flag. #BreakingBarriers

24. Emotional Connection doesn’t necessarily mean the butterflies.It is when you are really feeling this person in your heart #BreakingBarriers

25. 5) A Restless Intuition: When your soul man is telling you something is wrong, then it is a great red flag. #BreakingBarriers

26. God gave us something to confirm or condemn what you are doing. To some, it’s the Holy Spirit, to some it’s intuition #BreakingBarriers

27. Don’t ever disregard this or wish it away. Most people who have issues later on said they perceived it in their soul #BreakingBarriers

28. 6) Secrecy:When your person is very secretive to the extent dat they are alwys hiding things frm you,then it’s a red flag #BreakingBarriers

29. When you have to find out things behind their back and they are always hiding major information from you, please rethink. #BreakingBarriers

30. Any relationship that has so much secrets in it is bound to fail pretty soon. #BreakingBarriers

31. If your partner is not straight with you, wahala dey. It’s a great red flag #BreakingBarriers

32. Let me stop here for now, just in case there are questions. @dayus4heaven #BreakingBarriers.

Thanks Lara Kudayisi-Emerald for those insightful words shared on #Breakingbarriers 

Remember fam,  with God its people like us that succeed in life.  
To your success, 

Adedayo Olabamiji 

MASTERY OF BELIEF 

Posted: March 4, 2017 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.

1. Good Evening and welcome to this week’s session of #breakingbarriers as we teach of Mastery of Beliefs: Success. @dayus4heaven

2. Every one of us desires to succeed because that’s the way God created us; it’s an innate desire. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

3. However, success will never come to us on a platter of gold. We must strive for it and go for it with a strong desire. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

4. One thing we need to first of all also understand is that success is relative. To the student, success is passing an exam. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

5. To the accountant, success could be balancing his books or keeping his Organization’s spending within a certain limit. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

6. That’s why we must never look down on any one’s personal definition of success. We all have different aspirations. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

7. Success can also be broken down into a set of goals such that when each goal is achieved, you know you have succeeded. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

8. So you keep moving from goal to goal, success to success and this makes your success measurable and easily achievable. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

9. The most important thing therefore is this: what is the foundation for Success and how do I break all the barriers around me? #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

10. The foundation for Success and where all barriers are broken is the mind. The mind is the seat of our beliefs. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

11. Success is a belief and likewise failure is a belief. Everything we do in life and that happens to us is driven by beliefs. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

12. According to the Catalyst, “Behind every outcome in life is a belief.” This means that our beliefs determine our results and experiences. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

13. We don’t inherit success or failure; we inherit beliefs and these beliefs create our experiences and results all through life. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

14. Success is not a native of any country, race or tribe; it is simply a function of what you believe. You are what you believe. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

15. What is belief? Belief is the state of mind in which a person thinks something to be the case, with or without there being empirical evidence to prove that something is the case with factual certainty. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

16.  BELIEF COULD ALSO BE DEFINED AS A STATE OR HABIT OF MIND IN WHICH TRUST OR CONFIDENCE IS PLACED IN SOME PERSON OR THING. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

17. EVERY ONE OF US HAS A BELIEF AND OUR BELIEFS WILL ALWAYS BRING FORTH FRUIT. YOUR BELIEF IS THE LENS THROUGH WHICH YOU VIEW THE WORLD AND ALSO MAKE DECISIONS. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

18. IN UNDERSTANDING WHAT BELIEF IS AND HOW YOUR BELIEFS AFFECT YOUR success, THERE ARE SOME DEFINITIONS WE NEED TO GO THROUGH. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

19. MINDSET. MINDSET CAN BE DEFINED AS A PARTICULAR WAY OF THINKING: A PERSON’S ATTITUDE OR SET OF OPINIONS ABOUT SOMETHING. A MENTAL INCLINATION, TENDENCY, OR HABIT. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

20. ASSUMPTION. AN IDEA THAT IS FORMED WITHOUT EVIDENCE I.E. SOMETHING THAT YOU ACCEPT AS TRUE WITHOUT QUESTION OR PROOF.  #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

21. TRADITION. THE TRANSMISSION OF CUSTOMS OR BELIEFS FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION, OR THE FACT OF BEING PASSED ON IN THIS WAY. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

22. VALUES. VALUES ARE PRINCIPLES OR STANDARDS OF BEHAVIOR; ONE’S JUDGEMENT OF WHAT IS IMPORTANT IN LIFE. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

23. A combination of your mindset, traditions, assumptions, values etc. Is what will eventually form your core belief about life and Success. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

24. IT IS ALSO VERY INTERESTING TO NOTE THAT MOST BELIEFS THAT CONTROL OUR LIVES HAVE BEEN FORMED BEFORE THE AGE OF SIX YEARS OLD AND YOU DIDN’T EVEN KNOW. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

25. For example if you come from a place where they have a belief that success is only for a chosen few, that’s the lens through which you will view life. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

26. With this kind of mindset, you will never attract success simply because you have been unconsciously programmed to think it is for a chosen few. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

27. FOR EXAMPLE, A CHILD WHO ALWAYS SEES HIS MUM AND DAD QUARELLING WILL HAVE THE BELIEF THAT THAT’S WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT AND WILL SIMPLY REPLAY THAT SCRIPT WHEN HE MARRIES. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

28. YOUR WAY OF THINKING IS YOUR BELIEF ABOUT A THING. YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK. AS HE THINKS SO IS HE. PROVERBS 23:7. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

29. THE SAME OLD THINKING AND BELIEFS WILL PRODUCE THE SAME OLD RESULTS. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

30. YOUR BELIEF IS YOUR OPERATING SYSTEM AND WE MUST MAKE SURE THIS IS IN LINE WITH GOD’S WORD FOR SUCCESS. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

31. PROVERBS 4:23 THE ONLY THING GOD HAS TOLD YOU TO GUARD IS YOUR HEART AND YOU SHOULD DO IT DILIGENTLY BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT CONTROLS YOUR LIFE. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

32. GOD WANTS YOU TO GUARD YOUR MIND BECAUSE EVEN GOD CANNOT DO ANYTHING IN YOUR LIFE WITHOUT YOUR MIND I.E. YOUR BELIEF. PHILEMON 14. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

33. IF MY BELIEFS ARE THESE IMPORTANT ABOUT WHAT HAPPENS TO ME IN LIFE, HOW THEN DO I CHANGE MY BELIEFS? #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

34. FIRST OF ALL YOU MUST KNOW THAT IT IS GOD’S UTMOST DESIRE FOR YOU TO SUCCEED. TO PROSPER MEANS TO SUCCEED. 3 JOHN 2 #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

35. SECONDLY YOU MUST ALSO MAKE A CHOICE TO SUCCEED AND NO ONE CAN MAKE THAT CHOICE FOR YOU. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

36. GOD SAID IN 3 JOHN 2 THAT YOUR MIND DETERMINES YOUR SUCCESS AND REMEMBER WE SAID YOUR MIND IS THE SEAT OF BELIEFS; YOU MUST CHANGE YOUR MIND. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

37. IDENTIFY THE WRONG BELIEFS I.E. LIES SATAN HAS TOLD YOU. THESE ARE ALSO CALLED LIMITING OR DISEMPOWERING BELIEFS. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

38..YOU MUST KNOW WHO YOU ARE IN CHRIST AND THIS TALKS ABOUT IDENTITY. WHO ARE YOU? #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

39. YOU MUST KNOW THE TRUTH. NATURE ABHORS VACUUMS AND YOU WILL ALWAYS KNOW EITHER THE TRUTH OR A LIE. JOHN 8:32 #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

40. BE VERY CAREFUL ABOUT WHERE YOU ARE GETTING INFORMATION FROM I.E. WHAT YOU WATCH, WHAT YOU READ, WHAT AND WHO YOU ARE LISTENING TO ETC. PSALM 1:1-3 #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

41. YOU CAN GET AN UNGODLY COUNSEL FROM A GODLY MAN IF YOU ARE NOT CAREFUL. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

42. YOU MUST MEDITATE OF SUCCESS BY FILLING YOUR MIND WITH WHAT YOU WANT AND NOT WHAT YOU DON’T WANT. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

43. MEDITATION TALKS ABOUT PONDERING UPON SOMETHING OVER AND OVER AGAIN. IT IS MORE OR LESS THINKING IN PICTURES. JOSHUA 1:8, PSALM 1:1-3 & PHILIPPIANS 4:8. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

44. MEDITATION IS WHAT LEADS TO THE MIND RENEWAL PROCESS. ROMANS 12:1-3.  THIS IS WHAT WE CALL METAMORPHOSIS I.E. THE BUTTERFLY FORMATION PROCESS. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

45. PRAYING IN THE SPIRIT. THIS IS THE PROCESS THROUGH WHICH THE HOLY GHOST ESTABLISHES GOD’S TRUTH OVER YOUR LIFE. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

46. YOU MUST DECLARE WHAT YOU BELIEVE. IF YOU DON’T SAY IT WITH YOUR MOUTH IT SIMPLY MEANS YOU DON’T BELIEVE IT. 2 CORINTHIANS 4:13 & ROMANS 10:9 #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

47. IT WON’T HAPPEN IN ONE DAY BUT AS YOU PUT ALL THESE TO WORK, YOU WILL GRADUALLY START ATTRACTING SUCCESS. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

48. THEN OF COURSE, YOU MUST PUT YOUR HANDS TO WORK. THE IDLE MAN IS GUARANTEED A FUTURE OF POVERTY, LACK AND WANT. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

49. AND NEVER FORGET GOD’S GRACE I.E. UNMERITED FAVOUR. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven @gracelifengr

50. YOU ARE NOT GOING BACK TO YOUR PAST. THERE IS A BRIGHT SUCCESSFUL FUTURE IN YOU AND AHEAD OF YOU IN THE NAME OF JESUS. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

51. YOU WILL SUCCEED IN JESUS PRECIOUS NAME. #breakingbarriers  @dayus4heaven

Thanks Wole Olusola for sharing those insightful words on #BreakingBarriers 

Remember with God its people like us that succeed in life.  

Adedayo Olabamiji 

WHAT MAKES YOU TICK? SERIES 3 

Posted: February 26, 2017 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.


First of all, I’d like to thank @dayus4heaven for inviting me on #BreakingBarriers. It is a great privilege to be here. Thanks once again

Today, I’d be sharing on WHAT MAKE ME TICK? Incidentally, my birthday was February 10. I had been sharing something similar#BreakingBarriers

By God’s grace, I have achieved a whole lot within a short time. I am grateful to God for this. I’d share a few things #BreakingBarriers

WHAT MAKES ME TICK? WHAT MAKES ME TICK? WHAT MAKES ME TICK? WHAT MAKES ME TICK? @dayus4heaven #BreakingBarriers

1. I am inspired by God’s Love for me & my Love For Him! This necessitates EVERY decision, action I take. #WhatMakesMeTick #BreakingBarriers

I know God loves me. I am more than convinced that He has GREAT PLANS for my life (Jer 29:11) It stirs me #WhatMakesMeTick #BreakingBarriers

2. I have a CLEAR PERSONAL VISION! This is the foundation on which I do EVERYTHING. What is a vision? #WhatMakesMeTick #BreakingBarriers

I also love God dearly. I strive to live by His Word and be a worthy representative of Him on earth #WhatMakesMeTick #BreakingBarriers

A Personal Vision is your MENTAL PICTURE of your DESIRED FUTURE. It is the FOUNDATION upon which your success is built #BreakingBarriers

Often times, people mistake VISION, DREAM & GOAL as the same. They are different, yet very connected! I’d explain shortly #BreakingBarriers

Do you have a PERSONAL VISION? Do you have MENTAL pictures of your future?What you cannot SEE, you cannot HAVE/EXPERIENCE! #BreakingBarriers

Your VISION is the FOUNDATION. Your DREAM is the INSPIRATION. Your GOAL is the EXECUTION. End Point = SUCCESS #BreakingBarriers

It’s never to let to know your PERSONAL VISION. It needs to be PRECISE. Not sure? GET HELP! You should send me a dm ASAP. #BreakingBarriers

My UNDERSTANDING of my PERSONAL VISION inspires me via my DREAMS. I set GOALS as my EXECUTION PLAN! Nothing can stops me #BreakingBarriers

What were you born to do? What problem were you created to solve? Break the barrier of low performance by knowing this #BreakingBarriers

3. My AUDACIOUS GOALS!Success is the achievement of PRE-DETERMINED goals.My Goals DRIVE me ALL THE TIME. #WhatMakesYouTick #BreakingBarriers

I have 8 Golden Rules of Goal Setting. One of them- “Your Goals Must STRETCH you.” This principle PUSHES me ALL the time. #BreakingBarriers

Do you GOALS spur you to take ACTION? Do you disturb your mental process? If they do not #BreakingBarriers may be a mystery to you!

Power of Goals – Goal Give You Long Term Vision&Short Term Motivation. Are your goals aligned with the BIGGER PICTURE? #BreakingBarriers

Setting Goal helps you develop your self (accountability, improvement, confidence and respect) #BreakingBarriers

Goals help PROPEL YOU FORWARD! That’s what I am PASSIONATE about them. MY GOALS make me tick #BreakingBarriers

3. What makes me tick? My PURSUITS! I have seven of them. I’d share shortly #Breaking Barriers

My Pursuit of Family Love/Stability, Excellence, Character, Innovation, Personal Development, Selfless Service and Legacy #BreakingBarriers

Family Love/Stability – I do my BEST to ensure there’s love, peace & stability in my home. It’s part of my MOTIVATION #BreakingBarriers

Promote PEACE, LOVE and JOY in your life and home! If it’s present in both, EVERYTHING else will COMPLY #BreakingBarriers

Don’t COMPROMISE ANYTHING that will distabilise your home. Family problems may affect EVERYTHING about you! I’m serious #BreakingBarriers

I SET GOALS to make my wife HAPPY! It’s a MAJOR PART of my MOTIVATION. NO AMOUNT OF MONEY can replace it in my life #BreakingBarriers

EXCELLENCE – I am always driven to ensure I deliver better than before! I do not set personal standards! #BreakingBarriers

YESTERDAY’S excellence is TODAY’S mediocrity! Everytime I work, this RINGS IN MY HEAD! Let it always ring in yours #BreakingBarriers

Don’t set personal standards for excellence. FIND OUT the standard. The least is to be at par with it & not less #BreakingBarriers

I like to OVER-DELIVER EXCELLENTLY. People around me called it OVER-SABI. Well, it’s opened more doors for me #BreakingBarriers

Don’t be a local champion.Find out the WORLD’S STANDARD in whatever you do.A continental champion may be a world’s failure #BreakingBarriers

CHARACTER – I never want to be speaking, teaching or preaching and my wife, child(ren), staff or friends will be laughing #BreakingBarriers

Remember, a GOOD NAME is BETTER than riches. Preach what you practice. Let it not be the other way round #BreakingBarriers

Watch your words, actions and behaviour. People would judge you more based on these and not what you say #BreakingBarriers

Innovation -I pursue this CONSCIOUSLY! Newly formed and executed ideas RULE THE WORLD! I like to know how best I can serve #BreakingBarriers

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT – This is MY MANTRA! I am conscious that I cannot give what I do not have. Hence I pursue this… #BreakingBarriers

When I set goals, I set PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT GOALS. I also BUDGET for it. That’s one reason I achieve a lot. Do the same! #BreakingBarriers

SELFLESS SERVICE – I always place helping others over myself. I go out of my way! The results give me unquantifiable joy #BreakingBarriers

LEGACY – What do I want to be remembered for? This question also rings in my head all the time. It facilitates what I do! #BreakingBarriers

I’m sure you’ve learnt something tonight. DO SOMETHING with what you’ve learnt. God bless you. Till some other time #BreakingBarriers

Thank you Kelechi Anyilechi for sharing those nuggets. God bless you! 

Remember with God its people like us that succeed in life. 

To your success, 

Adedayo Olabamiji 

WHAT MAKES YOU TICK? SERIES 2

Posted: February 26, 2017 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.


 

Good evening, the pleasure is mine to be here tonight to share on #Breakingbarriers about “What makes you tick ?? @dayus4heaven I would like to extend my thoughts on triumphs over barriers and challenges of life. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

one thing is certain, the road to stardom is never straight, there will be curves & change in motion. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

Wherever or whatever situation we find ourselves, How we react is what matters. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

There are four things that stop us from living our dreams, sin, fear, rejection and doubtness. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

In the words of seth Godin “If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try.” #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

Maybe your challenge involves being scared out of your wits, because you’re afraid to fail. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

Embrace that fear and just do it so on your deathbed, you won’t regret trying.#Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

if you’re going to grow, flourish, and bloom, you’re going to have to work yourself through some dirt. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

“Every flower must grow through dirt.”#Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

My journey to becoming who I am today started a while ago after I discovered my giftings. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

I can remember that evening when I looked myself and asked questions about how I fared through life.#Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

I was tired of being a mediocre having met several people who lived ordinarily without discovering purpose. #Breakingbarriers

Self assessment is a system hat has always worked got me flying in times of hardships.#Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

I made a decision after that evening to leverage on my speaking and writing skills to serve humanity.#Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

But living that dream didn’t come without pain.#Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

Life threw stones at me but I floated due to some basic belief I held on to. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

I would like to share some tips to help you float like I floated during the hard times #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

Whether we like it or not, adversity is part of life.#Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

Be aware of, and accept that adversity is inevitable in life. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

As has already been pointed out, adversity is part of life. To avoid or resist it will only make it persist. #Breakingbarriers

 Build your internal resources. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

Before adversity hits, work on cultivating emotional strength, courage and discipline #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

When you make yourself aware that certain difficulties are inevitable, it prepares you for confronting adversity headon #Breakingbarriers

Another invaluable inner resource is faith. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

In all situations there is a light at the end of the tunnel, if you don’t picture it, you cannot achieve it. #Breakingbarriers

You need Faith that everything will work out #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

Build your external resources. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

Build a support system of family and friends. When the going gets tough, we all need encouragement. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

We need someone to talk to; someone to help ease the burden. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

That which does not kill you doesn’t always make stronger, hold on to your dreams, it will only take time #Breakingbarriers

Thanks for having me on this teleseminar tonight, The pleasure is indeed mine to impact and bless. #Breakingbarriers @dayus4heaven

We want to appreciate Speaker Samson Egbums for sharing those insightful words on #BreakingBarriers 

To your success, 

Adedayo Olabamiji 

SELF MASTERY

Posted: February 9, 2017 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.

1. Thank you, I am delighted to be here with you today #breakingbarriers
2. Honored to be with you again today #breakingbarriers

3. How can one create self mastery in your own perspective and perceptions about life? #breakingbarriers

A1a 1st we must take responsibility for what we’ve already done – good & esp the bad stuff #breakingbarriers

A1b we must want to change from what we were to want we can become #breakingbarriers

A1c We must up grade our associations – get around positive people who will support us #breakingbarriers

A1d Have faith in a higher power – that this shift is for everyone’s best good #breakingbarriers

A1e Must be willing to give up our neg stories – rewrite them to empower YOU  and others #breakingbarriers

#Listen to Your Inner Voice ~ #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

Q2. How can I ensure am disciplined to achieve successes I desire in life? #breakingbarriers

A2a Have patience – self mastery is a lifetime undertaking #breakingbarriers

A bad #habit never disappears miraculously. It’s an undo-it-yourself project ~ Abigail Van Buren #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A2b You’ll know success by realizing that the old stuff and ways – are uncomfortable to ever go back to them #breakingbarriers

A good #habit is as easy to develop as a poor one ~ Dennis Mannering #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A2c Keep a daily journal of each small success – new habits can only be developed over time w/ practice #breakingbarriers

A man is literally what he thinks, his character being the complete sum of all his thoughts ~ James Allen #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A successful life is nothing more than a series of successful days ~ Thomas D Willhite ~ #Success #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

Q3. Can you share five mantras that help or keep you going in life even in the midst of challenges? #breakingbarriers

A3a There is a seed of good in ‘every’ experience — search for it #breakingbarriers

Accept Life As It Comes ~ #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A3b In all things great & small I believe in the beauty of the the Divine Expression #breakingbarriers

All events are blessings given to us to learn from ~ #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A3c Why has this person or situation presented itself to me? Answer is always to learn how to love more #breakingbarriers

All the People I Have Ever Encountered have Influenced Me ~ #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A3d We can only grow in the midst of chaos. Learn how to expand comfort zones #breakingbarriers

Always Be Changing ~ #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A3e I’ve survived the injury – I know I’ll thrive in the recovery #breakingbarriers

Always think that what you have to do is easy and it will become so ~ Emile Coue #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

Q4. How do I build momentum to achieve my desirable goals and what are likely opposition one might face? #breakingbarriers

A4a break goals down into small chunks that can be easily accomplished & celebrated daily #breakingbarriers

Any idea, plan, or purpose may be placed in the mind through repetition of thought ~ Napoleon Hill #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A4b keep moving forward, never give up on your dream #breakingbarriers

A4c get advice/support from master mind team/mentor/coach and be accountable to them with your daily goals #breakingbarriers

Change the self-image & you change the personality & the behavior ~ Maxwell Maltz #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A4d Oppositions will appear in many forms – self doubt, family, cash flow #breakingbarriers

Discipline yourself and others won’t need to ~ John Wooden #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A4e Delete the dream stealers – friends, family who don’t support your goals & dreams #breakingbarriers

A4f Surround yourself with people who have already accomplished what you wish to achieve for support #breakingbarriers

Don’t wish for less problems; wish for more skills ~ Jim Rohn #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A4g Hire a support team to allow you to focus on what you do best #breakingbarriers

Every day is an opportunity to make a new happy ending ~ Unknown #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

Q5. Share how you’ve structure your life to the point U R determined to succeed regardless of what life throws at you? #breakingbarriers

A5a 1st two hours of each day is my time to meditate, yoga and fill my bucket so I can provide for others during the day #breakingbarriers

5 yrs from now, you’re the same person except 4 the people you’ve met & the books you’ve read ~ John Wooden #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A5b Self care, exercise vital to maintaining a positive mindset #breakingbarriers

Follow effective action w/ quiet reflection. From the quiet reflection will come even more effective action Peter Drucker #breakingbarriers

A5c Check in with my support team #breakingbarriers

Growth itself contains the germ of #happiness ~ Pearl S Buck #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A5d read/listen to personal/business development books daily – keep expanding your mind #breakingbarriers

#Habit is a cable; we weave a thread of it every day, and at last we cannot break it ~ Horace Mann #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A5e Learn from the success and challenges of others #breakingbarriers

I seek constantly to improve my manners & graces, for they are the sugar to which all are  attracted ~ Og Mandino #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

I will become master of myself. I will become great ~ Og Mandino #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

I will form good #habits & become their slaves ~ Og Mandino #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

If I am through learning, I am through ~ John Wooden #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

Q6. Please share insights on for things to do if one decide to master his life for productivity? #breakingbarriers

If you expect to make it big, you must work towards your objectives every day ~ Zig Ziglar #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A6a Focus on the things that will produce the best results for your biz #breakingbarriers

If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you’ll never get it done ~ Bruce Lee #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A6b Schedule your day the night before #breakingbarriers

If you’re not having problems, you are missing an opportunity for growth ~ Unknown #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A6c Honor and protect your time – people  will not value YOU or your time unless U do #breakingbarriers

Lack of direction, not lack of time, is the problem. We all have twenty-four hour days ~ Zig Ziglar #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

Life is a series of daily #habits. We must choose to spend our time wisely ~ #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A6d Break big goals/task down into smaller chunks – #breakingbarriers

Make each day your masterpiece ~ John Wooden #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

Make good #habits & they will make you ~ Parks Cousins #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

A6e All your goals and daily tasks must be written down and checked off as completed #breakingbarriers

Nothing is particularly hard if you divide it into small jobs ~ Henry Ford #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

Only a #habit can subdue another habit ~ Og Mandino #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

Out of chaos, find simplicity, from discord, find harmony ~ Bruce Lee #MindMastery #breakingbarriers

Hope this has been helpful – were there any questions in the stream I can help address? @dayus4heaven @BreakingBarrie3 #breakingbarriers

We want to appreciate Gary Loper for insight shared on #BreakingBarriers tonight.  
Remember with God its people like us that succeed in life. 

To your success, 

Adedayo Olabamiji 

THE POWER OF FOCUS 

Posted: February 7, 2017 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.

1. It’s such a huge pleasure to be here tonight,my apology for starting behind schedule, I had an unexpected emergency to settle. Thanks for having me. 

2. Fundamental issue dat determines the flow of life including our focus is “identity”. Once you have an identity crisis,your entire life changes.

3. Our self perception shapes our interface with life.once faulty,we automatically malfunction and live below installed capacity. #breakingbarriers

4. Study reveals dat d African youth dosent have  an information/knowledge problem. Required information  is available at our fingertips #breakingbarriers

5. Self discovery and awareness automatically narrows down your options and frees us to pursue the internal compelling pictures we see within #breakingbarriers

6. Am sure we’ve hosted great minds on did platform and many others. The question is what’s the impact on national development in general #breakingbarriers

7. The capacity required to  focus is built over time and  its intentional. Its a core value of life crafted from childhood globally #breakingbarriers

8. When you tell the African youth he is the leader of tomorrow and not to day. He abandons the  responsibility of development to other generations #breakingbarriers

9. Consciously or subconsciously we learnt the  ability to give attention to what is important to us, so we all posses to power of focus #breakingbarriers

10. As earlier established,our desires,  passions, goals and responsibilities flow from who we are & our perceived assignment on earth #breakingbarriers

11. So the  power of consistent attention is given to frivolities. We ‘ve priortised the  lesser issues of life & passed down excitement #breakingbarriers

12. Challenge is how do we redirect that  energy towards a meaningful & measurable goal with the understanding the life depends on us #breakingbarrier

13. We must tell subsequent generations that they are royalty created with the ability to  lead themselves & solve problems for humanity# breakingbarriers

14. We ‘ve built our lives believing a narrative about ourselves that  absolves us of d responsibility of growth & development #breakingbarriers

15. Personally I accepted the  responsibility of ensuring that families across Africa can watch wholesome/inspirational entertainmnt #breakingbarriers

16. That understanding has compelled me to look inwards & develop creative solutions to meet my objective & avoid unnecessary distractions #breakingbarriers

17. It meant I had 2 focus on enduring the solution was homegrown and met the identified need of creating positive Afrocentric content #breakingbarriers

18. I believed it was a huge privilege to tackle the challenge of creating​ dignified content for African homes and i rose up to it.#breakingbarriers

19. If we reconfigure young pple to see theselves as qualified to bring creative solutions to our world,we will see the  power of focus #breakingbarriers

20. As we Overhaul our educational system to intentionally raise creative problem solvers. Africa will achieve installed capacity #breakingbarriers

21. Thank you again for  the honour to share my thoughts.i strongly believe once Africa heals of its identity crisis, A giant will rise #breakingbarriers
We want to appreciate Deji Irawo for those insightful words shared on #BreakingBarriers tonight.  

Appreciate our fam for showing up! 👏👏👏 We love 😍  be you all!
Remember with God its people like us that succeed in life. 

To your success, 

Adedayo Olabamiji