ILLUSION OF EQUALITY 

Posted: April 8, 2017 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.

1. What a huge honor to be here to share with us. Thank you @dayus4heaven. #NoToDomesticViolence

2. Tonight I will be looking at our discourse from a perspective as a parenting coach. #NoToDomesticViolence

3. What I will be sharing tonight is an accumulation of experiences listening to my clients, #NoToDomesticViolence

4. Empirical observation and psychopathological inferences. #NoToDomesticViolence

5. I want to appreciate all the other speakers, their sessions were resourceful. #NoToDomesticViolence

6. While its very good we advocate for equally, while is very good to have laws that punish offenders… #NoToDomesticViolence

7. It’s important to note that Domestic violence is not the result of losing control, #NoToDomesticViolence

8. Domestic violence is intentionally trying to control another person. #NoToDomesticViolence

9. DM is intentional use of manipulative tools to gain control, a feat that has worked for the abuser over time. #NoToDomesticViolence

10. Let me share on two of the major root causes of domestic violence #NoToDomesticViolence

11. A dysfunctional community. #NoToDomesticViolence

12. The home is the first community a child is influenced to, hence responsible for shaping a child’s ideology. #NoToDomesticViolence

13. The child’s environment, which is a sub-set of the child’s community, #NoToDomesticViolence

14. Is also a major influence on how a child treats other human. #NoToDomesticViolence

15. How we treat our fellow humans is a reflection of our shared value system as a community. #NoToDomesticViolence

16. Domestic violence is an unveiling of the patterns learned during upbringing. #FaultyUpbringing #NoToDomesticViolence

17. All domestic violence is an ineffective way to communicate, which of course, got its root from the home. #NoToDomesticViolence

18. B.Ineffective communication- #NoToDomesticViolence

19. Because of being raised in a dysfunctional society, lot of children becomes Ill-equipped #NoToDomesticViolence

20. With how to effectively communicate their anger, hurt, pain or displeasure. #NoToDomesticViolence

21. Hence, the abusers project their hurt and unresolved issues on another human, #NoToDomesticViolence

22. Which manifest itself in form of physical abuse, emotional abuse, verbal abuse et al. #NoToDomesticViolence

23. Domestic abusers are carriers of unresolved issues, either from childhood, environment or emotional experience, #NoToDomesticViolence

24. Who just use others as symbol vehicle to pay back on their unresolved past. #NoToDomesticViolence

25. We all have a duty to empower our community (home) to treat all humans with dignity and respect, #NoToDomesticViolence

26. Irrespective of our cultural, religious or social affiliation. #NoToDomesticViolence

30. Parents should be intentional about the community the erect for their children and the life the need to model. #NoToDomesticViolence

31. Children should be taught emotional mastery and how to interprete life’s situations #NoToDomesticViolence

32. Parents, like all humans should seek effective means to communicate their displeasure or experiences of the past. #NoToDomesticViolence

33. The abuser and abused need help, to re-engineer the residue of their experiences, #NoToDomesticViolence

34. If we love enough to treat one another as ourselves, we wouldn’t want to hurt one another. #NoToDomesticViolence

35. I’ll stop here for tonight. Thank you for following

We want to appreciate Adeh Jones for those great nuggets shared on #Breakingbarriers. 
To your success, 

Adedayo Olabamiji 

Twitter): @dayus4heaven 

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