RELATIONSHIP RED FLAGS 

Posted: March 31, 2017 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.

1. ​#Hi guys, thank you for joining me this evening on #BreakingBarriers @dayus4heaven

2. And thank you @dayus4heaven for inviting me on this platform. I am honoured, bro #BreakingBarriers

3. And before I go on, let me wish every woman here a Happy Women’s Day. It’s a great time to be a woman. #BreakingBarriers

4. So, this evening I am going to be talking about Red Flags in Relationships. It’s a topic I am happy to talk about today #BreakingBarriers

5. Many people don’t understand what they shuld look for in a prospective guy or girl because they are desperate for company #BreakingBarriers

6. Please do not get to that level. Irrespective of how old you are, you deserve to be happy. Therefore, caution is key #BreakingBarriers

7. How do you identify Relationship Flags? You need to be sensitive and observant in order to identify these things. #BreakingBarriers

8. Please do not get carried away by love or infatuation. Love is not enough to sustain your relationship at all. #BreakingBarriers

9. 1) Constant Disagreement. When you constantly disagree with someone you are dating or prospecting, then it’s a red flag #BreakingBarriers

10. When you are constantly at logger heads with your partner shows that your values are clashing. #BreakingBarriers

12. People don’t clash but their values clash. #BreakingBarriers

13. Your values are your principles, ethics and things you live your life by. #BreakingBarriers

14. So, your values are almost the most important thing in your life. #BreakingBarriers

15. So, you need to find out your top 10 values and also check for the compatibility in your partner. #BreakingBarriers

16. When your values are not compatible, there would be constant disagreement and clashes. #BreakingBarriers

17. 2) Lack of Respect for your Opinion. When your Bae has no respect for your opinion, then it’s a red flag. #BreakingBarriers

18. If your partner disregards your opinion, either by shutting you down or dismissing it, then they don’t respect you #BreakingBarriers

19. When you are with someone, they should count you important enough to respect what you have to say or contribute #BreakingBarriers

20. Lack of Mind Intimacy: A lot of people are only concerned about physical intimacy but they neglect Mind Intimacy #BreakingBarriers

21. Mind Intimacy is when someone stimulates your mind. You can relate with that person on a deeper level beyond sex #BreakingBarriers

22. Mind Intimacy would sustain your relationship beyond physical or emotion. #BreakingBarriers

23. 4) Lack of Emotional Connection: If you don’t connect emotionally with your spouse, then it’s a red flag. #BreakingBarriers

24. Emotional Connection doesn’t necessarily mean the butterflies.It is when you are really feeling this person in your heart #BreakingBarriers

25. 5) A Restless Intuition: When your soul man is telling you something is wrong, then it is a great red flag. #BreakingBarriers

26. God gave us something to confirm or condemn what you are doing. To some, it’s the Holy Spirit, to some it’s intuition #BreakingBarriers

27. Don’t ever disregard this or wish it away. Most people who have issues later on said they perceived it in their soul #BreakingBarriers

28. 6) Secrecy:When your person is very secretive to the extent dat they are alwys hiding things frm you,then it’s a red flag #BreakingBarriers

29. When you have to find out things behind their back and they are always hiding major information from you, please rethink. #BreakingBarriers

30. Any relationship that has so much secrets in it is bound to fail pretty soon. #BreakingBarriers

31. If your partner is not straight with you, wahala dey. It’s a great red flag #BreakingBarriers

32. Let me stop here for now, just in case there are questions. @dayus4heaven #BreakingBarriers.

Thanks Lara Kudayisi-Emerald for those insightful words shared on #Breakingbarriers 

Remember fam,  with God its people like us that succeed in life.  
To your success, 

Adedayo Olabamiji 

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