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BEYOND 9-5 🕝

Posted: July 29, 2016 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.

#BreakingBarriers WEEK 30

1. Good evening. Thanks for this opportunity. I am to tweet on how to live beyond 9-5 jobs.#BreakingBarriers 

2. Actually, some people do 5- 11 Jobs. They leave the house at 5, return at 11. They have never seen sunlight while at home. #BreakingBarriers 

3. I believe we should all aspire for a job that gives us time for other things. When a job takes too much of your time, it makes life balanced. #BreakingBarriers 

4. Let’s start with a self- assessment. Is your job a hindrance to your joy, fulfilment or advancement? OR making important things fall? #BreakingBarriers 

5. Is your job making you sacrifice your health, faith or family? Did you take a temporary job that’s now becoming permanent? #BreakingBarriers 

6. Do you feel you are making progress in your career? Are you growing? #BreakingBarriers 

7. So choose and define your Career.#BreakingBarriers 

8. 2.  Develop a Career Development Plan CDP. It’s a plan to chart your career: What you have, skills you need, how to get it, roles to perform. #BreakingBarriers 

9. 3, look for a job that reinforces or allows your career to grow. Remember, your job should enhance your career. #BreakingBarriers 

10. Your career is more important than your salary. Don’t use money alone to determine jobs. Think of your career. #BreakingBarriers 

11. If you know your career, U will know what jobs you can take WITHOUT pay .If you know your career, you will know what jobs you cannot take. #BreakingBarriers 

12. Not every job is your job. Only the job that enhances your career is your job. #BreakingBarriers 

13. Joseph in the bible is a career manager. His job as slave/servant was his school to learn management. Your job may be bad but may be a school. #BreakingBarriers 

14. 4 Create platforms to enhance your career outside your job Platforms like social media, volunteering, professional bodies, churches etc. #BreakingBarriers 

15. You have a career in statistics, why aren’t you in statistics unit in Church? Wetin you dey find for choir? #BreakingBarriers 

16. 5. Work your career plans. This will include education, skill acquisition, and mentorship. Part of your plan may be to leave your current job. #BreakingBarriers 

17. Develop transferable skills to facilitate the change transferable skills are general skills you can use in many jobs. #BreakingBarriers 

18. Transferable skills enable you to be adaptable and flexible and marketable.Eg, communication skills, problem solving, negotiating, strategy. #BreakingBarriers 

19. I believe you need a job before becoming an entrepreneur. Experience matters. #BreakingBarriers 

20.  Use your current place of work to refine your concept. #BreakingBarriers 

21. Being entrepreneurial doesn’t mean you must start your own. There are people called intreprenuers. They stay in employment are create things. #BreakingBarriers 

22. Finally, use your career to serve God and humanity. Do some work for free. God pays more than salary. No let you eye too shook for money. #BreakingBarriers 

23. God will help us enjoy our jobs and careers. Go, grow, and soar. Your promotion, security and advancement is guaranteed. You are made for the top! #BreakingBarriers 

24. As I close, sending these tweets isn’t my job. But it has enhanced my career.Abi, I lie? Careers not a job is the koko. Dassol. #BreakingBarriers 

It was an insightful session on #BreakingBarriers with Yomi Fawehinmi!  God bless you Sir! 

Thanks fam ❤ ❤ for staying tune on #BreakingBarriers 👏 👏 👏. 

Don’t hesitate to share, ask questions and contribute your thoughts. 🙏:mrgreen:

Remember with GOD its PEOPLE like US that SUCCEED in LIFE. 

Adedayo Olabamiji 

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker, Change Catalyst and personal development coach. 

Twitter : @dayus4heaven 

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​WEEK 29

Barrier is a law, rule, problem, etc., that makes something difficult or impossible. @dayus4heaven #BreakingBarriers
A barrier is always something immaterial that impedes or separates a person from a desired outcome or life. @dayus4heaven #BreakingBarriers

Barriers can be Spiritual and Physical but the good news is that you can overcome it. @dayus4heaven #BreakingBarriers

The problem with most people is they sit around complaining about the barriers and not making any attempt to overcome them. @dayus4heaven

Let’s get one thing straight, “The barriers in your life that are in the way to your success are only in your head. @dayus4heaven

Barriers are immaterial and only real to the extent you allow yourself to believe them to be real. @dayus4heaven #BreakingBarriers

As soon as u are willing to do whatever it takes to become successful, you will experience success in all you do. @dayus4heaven #BreakingBarriers

when you stop erecting #barriers to your ideal life, take action with the attitude that you are willing to do whatever it takes you will succeed.

Let talk about Opportunities. @BreakingBarriers 

When one door closes another door opens. #BreakingBarriers

We so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us. @dayus4heaven

Our most significant opportunities will be found in times of greatest difficulty. @dayus4heaven  #BreakingBarriers

When your back is to the wall and you are facing fear head on, the only way is forward and through it. @dayus4heaven  #BreakingBarriers

Opportunities arise from a wide variety of circumstances change, chaos, confusion, inconsistencies,ambiguity,uncertainty, etc.@dayus4heaven

“If a window of opportunity appears, don’t pull down the shade.” Tom Peters @dayus4heaven #BreakingBarriers

“It’s through curiosity and looking at opportunities in new ways that we’ve always mapped our path.” Michael Dell @dayus4heaven
“Pursuing your passions makes you more interesting, and interesting people are enchanting.” Guy Kawasaki @BreakingBarriers @dayus4heaven
Success is where preparation and opportunity meet.” Bobby Unser @dayus4heaven#BreakingBarriers

Opportunities are like sunrises. If you wait too long, you miss them. William Arthur Ward @dayus4heaven #BreakingBarriers

To hell with circumstances; I create opportunities.” Bruce Lee @dayus4heaven #BreakingBarriers

You will succeed and God will destroy every barriers holding you back from turning your opportunities into business. thank you @dayus4heaven

Appreciate Kehinde Olagbenjo for those insightful nuggets via #BreakingBarriers. God bless you indeed ❤👏👏

Thanks fam ❤ ❤ for staying tune on #BreakingBarriers. 

Remember with GOD its PEOPLE like US that SUCCEED in LIFE #BreakingBarriers 

To your Success, 

Host : Adedayo Olabamiji 

Twitter : @dayus4heaven 

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#BreakingBarriers WEEK 28

In life we make many decisions. But there are two decisions we didn’t make. The decision to be born and the family we were born to. Life is like a bus ride. One with many bus-stops and an opportunity to disembark at every stop to take a different bus to a different location. The decisions of which bus you take ultimately decides your destination and the results you get. You are presently the result of all the buses you have taken. All the bus-stops you have disembarked and all the new buses you have embarked. In other words, you are a culmination of all the decisions you have taken and those that have been taken on your behalf.

Life could be unforgiving of mistakes and it could be extremely rewarding of opportunities. A young girl whose education got truncated because of a teenage pregnancy might actually feel (at the time) that her life has ended when in fact it has actually started. A young man who became an orphan at a very young age might be forgiven if he feels the future ahead is very bleak. But is it really bleak? Such is the irony of life that in the midst of extreme despair might actually lie express hope.

Nothing encapsulate this more than in the renewable nature of life. The very fact that the sun rises and sets and rises again in day and night is a testament that inherent in life itself is the ability to make start, end and start again. If there can be day and night, then there can the opportunity to make mistakes and correct those same mistakes the next day. There are no absolutes in life, rather there are just incidences and events. There is a reason we celebrate the end of a year and the beginning of a new one. Think about it. What is the difference between Dec 31st and Jan 1st? Absolutely nothing. But inherent in those days is the realization that a new year offers you an opportunity to toe a new path, correct the mistakes of the past year and thrive to be better in the coming one. Its lives own way of offering you an opportunity to come down at a bus-stop and take a new bus heading to the destination of your dreams.

I remember my experience while on a course in Paris. I usually will take the metro from my hotel to the office. This day, I missed my stop and I got taken off course about 3 kilometers from my destination. I was lost but I knew I needed to walk in a particular direction to get on track. Eventually I got to my destination with my feet all sore and tired. The point is, while life offers you no relieve for the consequences of your decision, it does offer you an opportunity (at sometimes great cost) to re-connect and get back on track. The problem is – Would you take advantage of the opportunity and would you re-connect the dots?

Let me suggest some few points on how to re-connect the dots in your life. 1. Understand that everything that happens to you happens for a reason. And central to that reason is a learning curve. When things good or bad happens to me, I usually ask myself the question “What does this mean? What can I learn from this? And how can I make it better? That you failed in love doesn’t mean that you are a failure. That you couldn’t succeed in business or an exam doesn’t mean you have failed. Learning to see the “learning curve” in that experience and striving to correct your “bus route” is the expected reaction.

Secondly, understand that your decisions determines your destiny. You are what you decide to eat, think, see, feel and believe. As simple as marriage is, it can be the difference between a wonderful adult life and a miserable one. I usually like to see decisions as equally to voting. The impetus is to “Vote Wisely” on who you intend to associate with, what you intend to spend your money on and the commitments you intend to take. You decisions yesterday ultimately decide your today and your decisions today will ultimately decide your tomorrow. So please “Vote Wisely”. When you spend time with angry and resentful people, you will be angry and resentment. When you spend time with the wise, you will ultimately be wise.

Thirdly, it’s never too late to start all over. Connecting the dots in your life requires that you take time to reflect on past decisions. And where necessary, take yourself by the bootstraps and start all over again. Ever tried to write and 50 page essay and your computer crashed right on the 45 page mark. Trust me you will feel like breaking a window. That’s how you feel when you come to a place of regret for many wasted years. Yes you might not be able to take back those years, but you can surely create a new story. The newness of life daily is a seal of approval from heaven that you can start over. Sure being laid off can appear like a statement on your competence, but you can always disprove that by start over in a new industry or even starting your own business.

Getting a divorce need not mean the end of your love and romantic life. Many have re-discovered true love after a failed marriage.

Let me end with the famous quote from Steve Jobs “You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something”. Ultimately, the past offers us the information to reflect and the future offers us an opportunity to correct.

If you have been down and out or beaten black and blue by circumstances of life. Don’t give up. Where life is, hope remains. Don’t think because you are 40 or 50, you are out of time. Some of the most successful business men in the US started at 40. Stan Lee created his greatest comic work in his 40s. Sam Jackson didn’t get a lead role in hollywood until he was 43. Henry Ford was 45 when he created d revolutionary Model T car. Charles Darwin didn’t influence science until he was 50. Infact, a study by Easy Life Cover, says 1 in 3 new businesses in the US were started by an entrepreneur age 50 or older. Don’t let age and society’s definition of success and failure tell you what you can and cannot do. #DefileCulture by #BreakingBarriers . Remember the words of the late Sage Steve Jobs “Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish”, #ConnectTheDot and #DefileTheNorm by #BreakingBarriers

What a great session with @yinkanubi 🔥🔥🔥🔥Thanks Yinka for those insightful words. 

Appreciate our fam ❤ ❤ for staying tune.

You can share, ask questions and comment. 

Remember with GOD its PEOPLE like US that SUCCEED in LIFE

I remain your faithful Agent of #BreakingBarriers 

Host : Adedayo Olabamiji 

Twitter : @dayus4heaven 

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Posted: July 9, 2016 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.

At a certain phase in Life, We all have moments when we slip off track in our careers, finances, family life, emotions etc #BreakingBarriers 
The truth is it is often not easy to bounce back as people say. It’s easy for people to say ‘get over it and move on’ #BreakingBarriers
Often times we take longer time to bounce back as we are often tempted to count our losses & analyse all that has occurred #BreakingBarriers
Recently I took a downward spiral in my emotions & finances. I haven’t bounced back fully but I learnt a lot in that phase #BreakingBarriers
I have had to ask for help from virtually everyone around, I had to change locations, our lives changed #BreakingBarriers

I & my entire family have had to make sacrifices in the process of bouncing back. It has not easy I dare say #BreakingBarriers
Are we where we want to be? NO! Are we were we used to be? NO!
but each day we inch towards bouncing back fully #BreakingBarriers

So how do we bounce back? #BreakingBarriers
Show emotions. If you must cry, please cry away. If you must scream, please do so but don’t bottle up the hurt #BreakingBarriers

I am yet to see any one who has not been hurt by a phase change especially if it’s a downward spiral. #BreakingBarriers

Ask for help. Don’t become a nuisance (I admit I must have become a nuisance at a point) but ask for help #BreakingBarriers

Sometimes the help you need is just someone to talk to. For some of us, we have had to ask for finances, food etc #BreakingBarriers 

Talk about your experiences. Someone or people who will understand your plight & offer a listening ear, shoulder etc #BreakingBarriers
I use this opportunity to thank everyone who has been there in the journey towards a full bounce back. You rock #BreakingBarriers
Challenge yourself. This is the hard part. Pushing yourself to bounce back. To bounce back to be greater than before.  #BreakingBarriers
Calculate your plans & set plans in motion towards bouncing back.#BreakingBarriers

The key to bouncing back is to take it one day at a time. Wounds don’t heal in a day. #BreakingBarriers

Seeking perfection in one day can lead to frustration. Take it onestep at a time. Give yourself allowance to slip #BreakingBarriers

I’m sorry. This is quite emotional for me. #BreakingBarriers

Cut costs. Cutting costs never hurt anyone. You can still have quality with small costs #BreakingBarriers

Sometimes, just take a break from everything. #BreakingBarriers
Explore all your gifts, talents & knowledge. Asides financial gain, it will aid fulfillment and bouncing back #BreakingBarriers

In your journey towards bouncing back, assist others along the way. Share love, ideas, finances & food. #BreakingBarriers

He doesn’t like online PDAs but thank @omolere for being a pillar,best friend,support etc when everything is falling apart.  #BreakingBarriers

Take your time. Use your experiences to help others.  #BreakingBarriers 
Explore new opportunities. Don’t lose your self esteem or sanity.#BreakingBarriers 

Life is in phases and Men are in sizes. Take your time to bounceback, we all do eventually. Like peak says “It’s in You”. #BreakingBarriers

Good evening and thank you for having me. #BreakingBarriers

Thanks Blessing Timidi Digha for those insightful words. 

Thanks for staying tune on #BreakingBarriers. 
Remember with GOD its PEOPLE like US that SUCCEED in LIFE. 

Host : Adedayo Olabamiji 

Twitter : @dayus4heaven 

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Posted: July 3, 2016 in UNLEASHIDEA INC.

1. Hi guys, welcome to #BreakingBarriers @dayus4heaven @BreakingBarrie3 . Today’s topic is #Purposeful

2. Heard it said a lot but you really can’t tell what #purposeful is to you? I was like this sometime in the past. #BreakingBarriers

3. Purpose is that distinguishing factor in the life of a person that makes him or her stand out. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

4. You cannot discover purpose outside of what God has put inside of you. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

5. People think that discovering purpose is an uphill task. Many simply do the next best thing that they can find. #BreakingBarriers

6. For most of us the pursuit of happiness is hinged on our finding purpose. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

7. When God created each and every one of us, He had an idea what He thought we would do for Him. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

8. Like Dr. Myles Munroe would say, “where purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable.” #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

9. However, we all become who God has called us to be when we discover what it is that He put in us. #BreakingBarriers #Purposefu

10. To live purposeful, you must discover the function for the gift that you have been given. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful 

11. Make sure that you prepare adequately for what your function is. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

12. Your function is usually a spin-off from the gift that you have. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

13. Know what you require so that you can take the time to acquire the skills you need. #BreakingBarriers #Purposefu

14. While you are preparing, also be sensitive tothe right timing to launch out. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful 

15. I know you want to be living your dream already, but what’s a dream if it doesn’t make impact? #BreakingBarriers #Purposefu

16. We need to be very discerning; we need to be very intentional. #BreakingBarriers #Purposefu

17. Take the time to discern and discover that which you have been created to do. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

18. From personal experience, my own life turned- my life did a 360 turn around when I discovered purpose. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

19. Realise that you are not on earth to mark time; you were put here on earth for a reason. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

20. You can interchange the word ‘vision’ for ‘purpose’ & say, “where there is no purpose, the people perish.” #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

21. Purpose goes beyond why it is that we are here, it enters the why you do the things that you do. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

22. Why you are here is one aspect of purpose; why you do the things that you do is another aspect of purpose. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

23. The other element of purpose is that it must benefit other people. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

24. The most powerful and successful lives are lived when they are lived on purpose. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

25. Your purpose must be beneficial to you. You should be happy and fulfilled doing whatever it is that you are doing?#BreakingBarriers

26. Purpose must deliver glory to God. if it is successful the way men see success, then it’s not delivering glory to God. #BreakingBarriers

27. Success is ambition within the framework of purpose. Success is not ambition in a vacuum. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

28. Success is actually something you do within the framework of the parameters that God has set in your life. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

29. Your life is your decision. To live a #Purposeful life is a decision. #BreakingBarriers

30. Purpose is beyond any money, purpose is about adding value. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

31.There’s a difference between living and existing. Purpose makes the difference. It gives direction. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

32.When you discover your purpose, it helps you chart a path. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful 

33.Discovering your purpose will help you make up your mind on discipline and self-control. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

34.Purpose is the anchor. It not only holds you, it also helps you live a simplified and meaningful life. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

35.Everybody does not find their #purpose using the same template. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

36.The gift that God gives to you or whatever it is that God has called you to, will always begin right where you are. #BreakingBarriers

37.In trying to discover #purpose , you need to ask, what has God put in me that this land needs? #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

38.Until you give your best where you are, you may never be able to garner yourself to give your best to yourself. #BreakingBarriers

39.If you want to live a life of #purpose , you need to take into consideration where you are at. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

40.My location, #Nigeria , has trained me to be able to achieve a lot with the barest minimum condition. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

41.Have you become so comfortable in where you are now that you are unable to fulfil your purpose? #BreakingBarriers

42.God’s purpose for your life will not contradict His will- that’s the truth! #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful @BreakingBarrie3 

43.Assess the weight of your gifting and the use you are putting them into. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful @BreakingBarrie3 .

44.You need to ascertain for yourself what your best use is. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful @BreakingBarrie3

45.If you find that where you are is not your best use, be very quick to do a U-turn. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful @BreakingBarrie3

46.Enjoying life by doing what you are called to do involves the right priorities & putting yourself to your best use. #BreakingBarriers

47.Being #purposeful is about living an authentic life. #BreakingBarriers @BreakingBarrie3

48.You cannot say I’m living a #purposeful life when you are not doing what your creator has ordained for you to do. #BreakingBarriers

49.We are peculiar and what that means is we have within us the capacity to be the thing that God has called us to be. #BreakingBarriers

50.People wake up and decide that they want to end up wherever they want to end up. Where do you want to end up? #BreakingBarriers

51.That ‘they seem to be succeeding at it, so I want to do it,’ is not a #Purposeful approach to life. #BreakingBarriers @BreakingBarrie3

52.I know people who changed their professions at 60. One thing they usually would say is “I wish I knew early enough. #BreakingBarriers

53.Are you living your live your life in such a way that when you’re done, you can say I’m ready to go? #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

54.Realise that you cannot take your gift and plug it into something that robs the earth of her lustre and moisture. #BreakingBarriers

55.Like our gifts, our design is value-neutral. How and where you plug it into determines how #purposeful you become. #BreakingBarriers

56.Find your design; even amongst the things that you have been given, you are stronger in some than you are in others. #BreakingBarriers

57. @JohnCMaxwell says it this way, ‘develop your strength and resource your weaknesses’

58.Want to live a purposeful life? 1. You must find your source. My source is God, my manual is the Bible. #BreakingBarriers

59.Want to live a #purposeful life? 2. You need to be sure about is your strength, your mould, your design. #BreakingBarriers

60.Find your template and be comfortable in that design that God has put together for you. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

61.Want to live a #purposeful life? 3. Be to be accountable to your source. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

62.Every time we decide that we can do whatever we want what happens is that we are not accountable to our source. #BreakingBarriers

63.4. Take your raw material and distill it into a product and a service that is specific to your calling. #BreakingBarriers #Purposeful

64.You cannot be anything that you want. You can only be what God has called you to do or to be. So live #Purposeful #BreakingBarriers
Wow! What a great session with Mrs. Bidemi Mark-Mordi ~@BidemiMarkMordi. God bless you indeed. Thanks for sharing via #BreakingBarriers 🙏 

Like Like to thank all our fam ❤ ❤ ❤ for staying tune. July promises to be great. 
Remember with GOD its PEOPLE like US that SUCCEED in LIFE. 

Host:Adedayo Olabamiji 

Twitter : @dayus4heaven 

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