Archive for March, 2016

MASTERY OF FEAR

Posted: March 25, 2016 in Uncategorized

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#BreakingBarriers Week 12

1. Hello to all amazing followers of the #BreakingBarriers Series and thank you for joining us today to share, learn and grow.

2. Thank you @dayus4heaven for bringing me on the #BreakingBarriers platform to craft in my insight and colour the canvas beautifully.

3. Today, I will be sharing on the topic: Mastery Of Fear! #BreakingBarriers
Instead of saying the stuffs you’ve read in books and the countless theories about fear, I’ll tread the practical path. #BreakingBarriers

5. I’ll share with you experientially how we have been mastering fear in our daily lives and how to pitch a leap from there. #BreakingBarriers

6. Actually, fear happens to us all! To haggard 80-year old to the pompous 19-year old to the ‘fearless-inclined’ babies. #BreakingBarriers

7. Our usual response to fear is fight or flight – kick it in the face or we bury our face in widespread timidity. #BreakingBarriers

8. Students, afraid of failure, cheat! They write on the palms and laps, bribe exam officials and use mercenaries. #BreakingBarriers

9. Employees, scared of retirement, forge their age! While their true age counts, their false age will meet retirement soon #BreakingBarrier

10. Clergymen hate meager congregation, some will try all ‘emotional gymnastics’ to keep the members coming. Fear Huh? #BreakingBarriers

11. Volunteers know that nothing is free, not even in Freetown! They are afraid of losing unpaid employment. Oh yeah! #BreakingBarriers

12. Fear happens to us and that’s okay. Oh Yes! How will you know that you’re winning if there isn’t any barrier to break? #BreakingBarriers

13. I entered ‘hot soup’ at 13 years old, my 1st public speaking; I nearly fell off the stage in church. My spine moved. #BreakingBarriers

14. Later, I continuously looked myself in a standing mirror, kept speaking and rehearsing. Now, it’s fun and pleasurable. #BreakingBarriers

15. In 2012, despite fear, I travelled for 48hours+ on road with people I have never met before to Cote D’Ivoire. #BreakingBarriers

16. Despite my fear of strangers, I was in Abidjan for 2mths w/ people who spoke the language I haven’t mastered till now #BreakingBarriers

17. I learnt that if you’re afraid of strangers, strangers will be afraid of you too! Like beget Like; Fear beget Fear. #BreakkingBarrier

18. Despite fear, today, I have eaten delicacies in more than 6 countries that I careless about the names of the food. #BreakingBarriers

19. We’re afraid of everything – food, mosquitoes, sun, perfume, rat, and so on. See, fear inhibits your limitless nature! #BreakingBarriers

20. For years, I knew that I could make products that’ll transcend borders, yet I fed my fear instead of nurture my faith. #BreakingBarriers

21. Now, I’ve created 3 online courses – paid and free — even when I felt I was an amateur. ‘Who will buy?’ was my fear. #BreakingBarriers

22. On Monday 28th March, I’ll be dishing out 5 Unusual Secrets of Using Google To Get Scholarships, New Clients & Jobs. #BreakingBarriers

23. Now, I coach MSc students & top executives. With solutions, nobody cares that I have an unrelated B.Sc certificate. #BreakingBarriers

24. @jakechukwu tore my fear of networking @SocialGoodNG launch. Now, nobody is too tall, big or small for me to approach. #BreakingBarriers

25. You, I know you’ve got some juicy ideas in your head but fear is eating you up. Get up, your solution is a tweet away. #BreakingBarrier

26. My friend, you have a choice! Allow fear to kick your butts into success or allow it to rough-handle you into failure. #BreakingBarriers

27. Writing isn’t my hobby, yet in 2015, in holdup, I wrote 150+ articles from scratch and published a few. Fear? Damn it! #BreakingBarriers

28. Despite fear, in 2015, I wrote & self-published a book ‘Why Pray When You Can Easily Worry’. So I’m an author too? Oh! #BreakingBarriers

29. Despite fear of financial feasibility, I left my job last year and founded @PrikkleAcademy to create unschooled Education. #BreakingBarriers

30. Let me ask you an unusual question: What is NOT stopping you from chasing your dreams? Tweet your answer Now! #BreakingBarriers

31. Despite fear, I presently live in a rural community with wacky internet and no electricity, yet making a difference. #BreakingBarriers

32. I miss all conferences and networking that happens in the city, but I’m bringing hope and digital access to rural areas. #BreakingBarriers

33. Fear says: ‘Will it make sense? ’I say: A farmer doesn’t pull up the flowers to check if the roots are coming on.#BreakingBarriers

34. You should make things happen, the nation’s economy shouldn’t control your life. You should die empty, despite fear! #BreakingBarriers

35. Friends, what you are afraid of is also afraid of you! You either scare the hell out of fear or it loots your wealth. #BreakingBarriers

36. Before, I thought scholarships were only for the so called 1st-class students; my fear and doubt was broken last year. #BreakingBarriers

37. Though I bagged a B.Sc with 2:2, I applied for an Intl. scholarship last year and was 1 of the 3 Nigerians selected. Hmm #BreakingBarriers

38. The rest of the scholarship story is for another day. It was a huge barrier in my mind that was seamlessly broken. #BreakingBarriers

39. Today, get out of the rut of over-analysis paralysis. Be clear on what you want and despite fear, beat the path to it. #BreakingBarriers

40. Let me give another funny example before leaving my twitter wall to rest for tonight. #BreakingBarriers

41. At 22, I’d never asked a girl out. Despite fear, I proposed to my dream girl. She said YES after 2 months on hold. #BreakingBarriers

42. The fact that we sleep, walk, eat, type, daily, is a proof that despite fear of the worst happening, we still do it! #BreakingBarriers

43. We’re afraid of accidents, but we still travel; we are afraid of poverty, but we still spend like there’s no tomorrow. #BreakingBarriers

44. We’re afraid of scarcity but we still share; we’re afraid of unemployment but we still send our kids to school. Yea? #BreakingBarriers

45. We’ve been mastering fear in our own ‘little’ ways. We’ve been victors! Let’s translate that success to bigger things. #BreakingBarriers

46. To really master fear, just ACT! Yes, do it afraid! #BreakingBarriers

47. Finally, as @MichaelHyatt said, “More often than not, being brave means doing it scared!” #BreakingBarriers pic.twitter.com/C0id2WCmur

48. Thank you all for following the #BreakingBarriers session tonight. It was awesome sharing a bit and listening to you guys. Go and Sparkle!

49. Thank you again @dayus4heaven host of #BreakingBarriers#YouAreLimitless#YouAreAmazing Keep spreading this spice! (Hearty Cheers 🙂

Thanks Damilola for facilitating  #BreakingBarriers. It was an insightful and experiential session. Am glad to have hosted YOU!

Great fam, don’t hesitate to share, comment and ask questions where necessary.

I remain an agent of #BreakingBarriers

Host : Adedayo Olabamiji
Twitter : @dayus4heaven
Blog : unleashidea.wordpress.com

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1. Following my resignation from paid  job as an engineer. I’d been employed for 10 years. #BreakingBarriers

2. I’m now focused on thought leadership. However, how did I get to the point of conviction and eventual exit? #BreakingBarriers

3. In 2006 I first had glimpses into the future that my life wanted to play in. I believed it, but I had to strategize. #BreakingBarriers

4. Thus began my journey into the world of helping others become exceptional. #BreakingBarriers

5. A thought leader is one who is an expert in a topic that is an inch and mile deep.#BreakingBarriers

6. Thought leaders are people who deeply understand the business they’re in. #BreakingBarriers

7. By business, I mean an enterprise ( a vehicle of conveyance) that sells an ideology which changes the face of humanity. #BreakingBarriers

8. If you’ve got unique insights to share on issues bothering humanity, then you’re a thought leader. #BreakingBarriers

9. If you’ve internalised lessons that can be translated into your own relatable experience, you’re a thought leader.#BreakingBarriers

10. Thought leaders package ideas in formats to change the way people think. #BreakingBarriers

11. Thought leaders are not only talking, they’re doing things and teaching others how to do it. #BreakingBarriers

12. When you figure out how to solve a problem and teach others how to solve their own problems, you’re a thought leader.#BreakingBarriers

13. Having discovered that I could help people to clarify their giftings and use them profitably, I needed to showcase. #BreakingBarriers

14. To become an influential thought leader, your ideologies must be communicated clearly to your tribe. #BreakingBarriers

15. Becoming influential means becoming famous to the family of people who adore and cherish what you do. #BreakingBarriers

16. To this, you have to be consistent at publishing your thoughts by sharing them on your platform. #BreakingBarriers

17. A platform is symbolical. It’s akin to the stage that an evangelist stands on to share the good news to the people. #BreakingBarriers

18. So to be heard and seen, you need a platform to stand on to communicate your ideologies. #BreakingBarriers

19. And for me, starting out, I couldn’t go to the traditional media because of cost. I embraced the new media. #BreakingBarriers

20. In 2011 I became intentional on Facebook, dishing my unique thoughts on organizational leadership & exceptional living.#BreakingBarriers

21. I’d show up everyday to share my thoughts in these areas, not copying and pasting others, but being unique. #BreakingBarriers

22. The new media is such an awesome playground that can fit you big dreams. You can reach millions with a click. #BreakingBarriers

23. When you show up and publish your thoughts consistently on social media, three things happen to you. #BreakingBarriers

24. You increase the perception of expertise that people have about you. Folks take note of intelligent thoughts. #BreakingBarriers
You increase the trust and dependability that people have in you. You shore up your social capital. That’s key. #BreakingBarriers

26. You begin to attract patronage from folks whom you have become famous to by virtue of your consistency and uniqueness. #BreakingBarriers

27. To do these, you MUST be careful not to dish thoughts that are watery just because you want to share. #BreakingBarriers

28. When you focus overwhelmingly on helping people solve their challenges, you become God unto them. We worship divinity. #BreakingBarriers

29. It’s not about the gimmick, nor the style, but about the peculiarity of your own communication. #BreakingBarriers

30. As a thought leader, some things can come naturally to you. #BreakingBarriers

32. The publishability of your content is key, but the route is anchored on your own peculiarity. #BreakingBarriers

32. The publishability of your content is key, but the route is anchored on your own peculiarity. #BreakingBarriers

33. I’ve seen folks buckle up under a few months of blogging because they couldn’t keep up with writing posts. #BreakingBarriers

34. Find a platform and stick to it. If it’s to appear on video, do so. If it’s to record your voice, do so. #BreakingBarriers

35. Earning by being a thought leader is a commingling between the forces of trust, consistency and uniqueness. #BreakingBarriers

36. The principles may be the same, but the particularity of the routes matters.#BreakingBarriers

37. It’s not about the gimmick, but your decision to publish your  expertise to the world via your own path and    peculiarity.#BreakingBarriers

38. Your ability to stir the hearts of people as a thought leader is such a powerful endeavour. #BreakingBarriers

39. Growing communities of people who are helped by what you do ensures a consistent flow of income. #BreakingBarriers

40. Serving your tribe with dedication and genuineness of heart is a sure way to leave imprints on the sands of time. #BreakingBarriers

Thanks a lot to Adedayo Olabamiji @dayus4heaven for this opportunity to share. God bless you dearly. #BreakingBarriers

Credit : Emeka Nobis from #BreakingBarriers Master Class Event in February.

Please note that this is an excerpt from the TweetCast session.

Follow @dayus4heaven for motivational and personal development tweets. Enjoy your day and don’t hesitate to comment, share and ask questions.

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No matter how far life pushes you down, no matter how much you hurt, you can always bounce back.

When you get knocked down hard, it’s important to have the resources to help you get back up again, which includes having people to lean on.

The living has a great hope, we have life to bounce back from any difficulty. The dead had no hope.”

There are no disasters, only opportunities. And, indeed, opportunities for fresh disasters.

I believed in life that foe every problem in life therein equivalent opportunity. Perceptions help on to see and covert to bounce back

I also realized in life that for every event that happens to you have a message and lesson to learn.

Everything’s not going to go perfect. You’re going to have some losses that you’re going to have to bounce back from and some things that are a little unforeseen that you’re going to have to deal with.

The bend in the road is not the end of the road unless you refuse to take the turn.

Those who have mastered the art of resilience know that setbacks and challenges can be our most powerful learning opportunities. Some of the world’s most successful people have been fired from their jobs, and used the experience to learn something about themselves.

Michael Jordan: I have missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot… and I missed. I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that’s precisely why I succeed.

Life is easy when you’re hot. But what happens when the ball bounces the other way? You just keep getting back up and climbing up

The harder you fall, the higher you bounce. Your failing is a set-up to be great in life.

A divorce, a breakup, losing a job, or just feeling seriously down can ground you, rough you up a bit

Life is a ride that we take, sometimes with a passenger, other times all alone. How you bounce back from life tells a lot about you as a person. Some people fight to the death, others are more a part of death and never truly understand why this is so……”

Inflate yourself with a genuine passion always. This makes it possible for you to bounce back when you fall

Don’t be so damn hard on yourself. Yeah, you screwed up. You’re not perfect, fine. Learn from it. But don’t punish yourself. Be kind to you, even when you screw up. You’ll bounce back eventually. You’ll make up for it.”

Life is not about how fast you run, or how high you climb, but how well you bounce.

Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.

When ever we experience a pain or a loss… we usually bounce back. Sometimes even stronger. That’s called “resiliency.”

Resilient people are good at tapping into their “positivity ratio,” according to Fredrickson. This means that they notice and appreciate the little joys and victories — which keeps them from feeling like “everything” is going wrong.

Resilience isn’t a single skill. It’s a variety of skills and coping mechanisms. To bounce back from bumps in the road as well as failures, you should focus on emphasizing the positive.

Adopting an attitude of “realistic optimism,” which combines the positive outlook of optimists with the critical thinking of pessimists, can boost happiness and resilience.

Gratitude not only helped her deal with being fired, but it also helps her keep life’s everyday stresses in their proper perspective.

Copyright Adedayo Olabamiji 2016
Twitter : @dayus4heaven

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This week during my reflection moments, find it thoughtful to share this with my followers on Twitter via #Life101 I host twice a week.

Honestly, if everyone can declutter their lives then we will live life intentionally. Below are my thoughts on why and how you can DECLUTTER you Life.

To experience the FULLNESS of LIFE, YOU need to be PROACTIVE on how your LIFE FLOW.

Clutter isn’t just confined to our external world.

Our mind can also be chock-full of worries, regrets and repetitive stories that keep us stuck in neurotic patterns. CHECK YOURS!

Probably you at a time you are bored? Boredomness has cost you a lot in LIFE?

Boredom is the fear of self! You need to Explore SELF!

You need help to FREE your LIFE and to get out of STATUS QUO.

A life without been PRODUCTIVE is useless in all. TAKE NOTE!

Clutter is not just physical stuff. It’s old idea, Lifestyle, toxic relationship and bad habits.

Clutter is anything that does not support your better SELF. Kill them before they KILL you.

For your life to FLOW is towards your PURPOSE and VISION in LIFE you need to DECLUTTER when necessary.

The rate at with your LIFE FLOW is the function of ensure nothing negative DRAIN your energy

Channel your ENERGY and STRENGTH to live a great LIVE.

STOP the PITY PARTY before you are STRANDED in LIFE.

Remember when a GUTTER get filled up with DIRT, if the dirt not drain or remove its start STINKING

DECLUTTER before your LIFE starts STINKING!

You need to accept responsibility and reality of getting RID of anything that is not making you PRODUCTIVE in LIFE.

DECLUTTER fear, worries, doubt before you get stuck in LIFE!

Let go of all things WEIGHING you down.

IDENTIFY things that doesn’t work in your LIFE and deal with them.

STOP wasting your time on things that will not add value to your Iife

STOP entangling yourself to things that will not bring the BEST out of YOU

Anger, fear, doubt BLUR your VISION and makes you end up with NO DIRECTION.

Only when you declutter your heart of these scraps of negativity can you truly explore the corridors of LIFE’s many POSSIBILITIES.

The power of FOCUS help you remain on course. As a matter of fact FOCUS gives you RECOURSE to finish your COURSE in LIFE.

FOCUS your life and energy on PRODUCTIVE THINGS.

FOCUS gives you sense of DIRECTION and helps to crystallize your VISION.

Expect CHANGE! Change is inevitable, Change is constant.

The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.

Change before YOU have to.

You never CHANGE things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.

The first step toward change is awareness. The second step is acceptance.

Progress is IMPOSSIBLE without CHANGE. Embrace CHANGE and  your life will CHANGE.

Don’t live in the PAST! PUSH all the dirts out and EMBRACE NEWNESS of LIFE!

You can’t REACH for anything NEW, if your hand is STILL FULL of YESTERSDAY’s JUNK.

RELEASE the old !!!!!!

The goal of  Declutter is to get rid of non-essentials and keep only what’s necessary.

 When it comes to the contents of your mind, this means deciding what you pay attention to, that is, what’s WORTH KEEPING and what’s not.

How do you do this? Every time a negative thought, emotion or internal experience arises, ask yourself the following:

1.Do I need this? Is it really necessary?

2.Does it serve me? Is it helpful or useful?

3.Am I attached to it? Can I let it go?

Declutter your LIFE and LIVE to FUILFIL PURPOSE.

Remember with GOD its PEOPLE like US that SUCCEED in LIFE.

#DeclutterYourLife
Follow @dayus4heaven on Twitter for updates.

 

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PSYCHOLOGY OF WEALTH

Posted: March 17, 2016 in Uncategorized

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#BreakingBarriers WEEK 11

1. #BreakingBarriers apologies I am joining this late. Just Got to US and need to check in. I missed my flight and that affecting this event –  @stephenakintayo

2. #BreakingBarriers the truth remains that, we face barriers on a daily bases and the option is to be a Victim or Victor.  pic.twitter.com/LHDl00DzuX.

3. Wealth is a mindset. Making money is psychological. You can never attract what you don’t imagine. #BreakingBarriers.

4. #BreakingBarriers you need to imagine wealth if you will ever attract it. Imagination is birthed during challenges and after challenges.

5. Your current financial challenge should affect your ability to imagine wealth. Making money is your right and not a privilege. #BreakingBarriers

6.  #BreakingBarriers you deserve to be wealthy! God want you to be wealthy. See yourself as being wealthy and over time it will be a reality.

7.  #BreakingBarriers Don’t let your past financial failures prevent you from dreaming a new financial reality. Only Dreamers make money.

8. #BreakingBarriers you will not see one lasting wealth builder that did not start from dreaming the impossible into possibility.

9.  #BreakingBarriers  To Build Wealth, try and locate a wealthy Person and ask him or her to mentor you. Be willing to serve or pay for it.

10. Mentors are ladders that you climb to the top and it will not come easy to get a mentor.#BreakingBarriers

11.  #BreakingBarriers Getting a Wealth Mentor will cost you something but don’t be afraid to go for it. Building wealth is a skill!

12.  #BreakingBarriers it takes a professional wealth coach to mentor you to wealth.

13.  #BreakingBarriers Be value driven! To build wealth, look for a value to offer in exchange for cash. It’s as simple as that.

14.  #BreakingBarriers  Sorry, I have to end this now. Thanks for being a part of it. God bless you!

Really appreciate Stephen Akintayo for the sacrifice despite his tight schedule to facilitate #BreakingBarriers.  Will be glad to host you again.

Thanks fam for the support. God bless you all. Don’t hesitate to share, ask questions and comments.

Remember with GOD its PEOPLE like US that SUCCEED in LIFE.

Host : Adedayo Olabamiji
Twitter : @dayus4heaven
Blog : http://www.unleashidea.wordpress.com

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MASTERY OF BELIEFS

Posted: March 10, 2016 in Uncategorized

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#BreakingBarriers WEEK 10

Thanks @dayus4heaven for the introduction and for having me on this platform #Breakingbarriers

1a. DESIRE is not a WISH, the former is an OBSESSION, the latter is a mere DECLARATION #BreakingBarriers @dayus4heaven

1b. BONDAGE is to be LED against ones WILL by a MASTER. When you are LED by your EMOTIONS against your WILL, you are in BONDAGE #BreakingBarriers

2) BONDAGE is to be LED against ones WILL by a MASTER. When you are LED by your EMOTIONS against your WILL, you are in BONDAGE #BreakingBarriers

3) Those who USE their EMOTIONS CONTROL their lives, those who are USED by their EMOTIONS are CONTROLLED by life #BreakingBarriers

4) MASTERS of LIFE are those who have CHOSEN only LOVE as a RESPONSE #BreakingBarriers @dayus4heaven @IAmSteveHarris

5) Locked up EXPRESSION leads to DEPRESSION. BONDAGE is CONSTRAINT, FREEDOM is a RELEASE; release that EMOTION!SCREAM! #BreakingBarriers

6) A wish is the EXPRESSION of a THOUGHT. DESIRE is the EXPRESSION of an OBSESSION with a THOUGHT backed by a Strong POSITIVE EMOTION #BreakingBarriers

7) BELIEF is a FEELING of CERTAINTY; it is NOT an INTELLECTUAL CONNECTION between a THOUGHT and a PERSON but an EMOTIONAL one #BreakingBarriers

8) You may have DIFFERENT plans but you should have ONE VISION! Division is simply the PRESENCE of to VISIONS (DI-VISION) #BreakingBarriers

9) LOVE is the STRONGEST FORCE of ATTRACTION, DESIRE is simply LOVE for what you want #BreakingBarriers @dayus4heaven

10) What you DESIRE is TANGIBLE, it EXISTS on the other side of your FEAR #BreakingBarriers

11) What you FEAR is an ENEMY that RETREATS as you APPROACH IT #BreakingBarriers @dayus4heaven

12) FEAR is the ENERGY that causes you to SHRINK, LOVE is the ENERGY that causes you to EXPAND #BreakingBarriers

13) A lot of us have REDUCED ourselves to a SPIRITUALITY that ACCEPTS FEAR e.g “send this message to 5 people or die, REALLY? #BreakingBarriers

14) What you SAY,you will BELIEVE. Then what you have BELIEVED becomes what you will POSSESS. So SAY what you WANT and soon you’ll POSSESS it #BreakingBarriers

15) No one is READY for a thing until he is PERSUADED he CAN ACQUIRE it #BreakingBarriers

16)We PRAY for SOMETHING and in our daily INTERACTIONS SAY the CONTRARY. You (dis)ALLOW God to ANSWER what you PRAY by what you SAY #BreakingBarriers

17) If you cannot IMAGINE yourself being WORTHY to be SPOKEN to by God, how can you imagine yourself WORTHY to RECEIVE from him? #BreakingBarriers

18) Don’t just SEEK to DISCOVER who you ARE but SEEK to DETERMINE who you WANT to be #BreakingBarriers @dayus4heaven

19) PRAYER is d ACT of SOWING d SEED in d ground, subsequently, your positive or negative WORDS will either WATER or WASH AWAY the seed #BreakingBarriers

20) REPETITION of AFFIRMATIONS of ORDERS to your subconscious mind is the METHOD to DEVELOP your BELIEF #BreakingBarriers

21) “I want to make PLENTY money”= making NO money because the MIND is DESIGNED to FOCUS on DEFINITE Goals and REPEL VAGUENESS #BreakingBarriers

22) To Hope is to give ATTENTION to an OUTCOME you WANT but to BELIEVE is to be OBSESSED with ACTUALIZATION of this OUTCOME #BreakingBarriers

23) PREDOMINANT THOUGHT in your MIND is what PRODUCES your RESULTS #BreakingBarriers

24. The man who WORRIES; by the ACT of WORRYING grants ACCESS to MORE things to WORRY about #BreakingBarriers

25) WORRY is MEDITATION on an UNDESIRABLE RESULT. It merely ACTIVATES forces to PRODUCE more of this UNDESIRABLE RESULT #BreakingBarriers

26) Your job is to CREATE your ENVIRONMENT,otherwise you ADJUST to the frequency of the PREDOMINANT BELIEFS in the environment you are in #BreakingBarriers

27) Your MIND when you WAKE UP and just BEFORE YOU SLEEP is SUGGESTIBLE. The WISE man SUGGESTS his DESIRES to his MIND at these TIMES #BreakingBarriers

28) The man who is GUARANTEED of VICTORY is one who leaves for HIMSELF NO possible way of RETREAT #BreakingBarriers

29) RETREAT is the ACCEPTANCE of DEFEAT. So though your reality DIFFERS from your DESIRE, stand STILL, hold on to your DESIRE #BreakingBarriers

30) SUCCESS has ONE DESIRED OUTCOME, failure has SEVERAL ALTERNATIVES! OPTIONS reduce the POSSIBILITY of this ACHIEVEMENT #BreakingBarriers

31) He who CANNOT MASTER one day cannot MASTER a LIFETIME #BreakingBarriers

32) FEELINGS are CREATED by THOUGHT and THOUGHTS by your FOCUS. Want to change how you FEEL? Change your FOCUS! #BreakingBarriers
33) That which you RESIST with your HEAD, you cannot RECEIVE into your HANDS #BreakingBarriers

34) The man who desires MASTERY has a ROUTINE for IMAGINAL ACTIVITY! For the things that are SEEN are created from the UNSEEN #BreakingBarriers

35) To say you are NOT CREATIVE’ is to DENY d NATURE of GOD in u! All men are CREATIVE, Few ACTIVATE this through IMAGINATION #BreakingBarriers

36) You cannot FULLY experience JOY without CREATION! For to CREATE and to EXPERIENCE your CREATION is the full EXPRESSION of JOY #BreakingBarriers

37) “I AM” is the STRONGEST CREATIVE statement in the WORLD. Use it WISELY; making sure it PRECEDES POSITIVE WORDS #BreakingBarriers

38) Your IMAGINATION is the ARCHITECTURAL PLAN, your LIFE is the SOLELY a REFLECTION of your DESIGN #BreakingBarriers

39) The CONSPIRACY to KILL the CREATIVITY of MOST MEN is to DECEIVE them to BELIEVE that FANTASY is ONLY for KIDS #BreakingBarriers

40) FANTASIZING about a THING CREATES NEURAL pathways to FORM a BELIEF that the THING is doubtlessly YOURS #BreakingBarriers

41) CONVENTIONAL THINKING tries to KEEP you in the PAST but IMAGINAL ACTIVITY TAKES you into the FUTURE #BreakingBarriers

42) You have NO CONTROL over the PAST yet you have CONTROL over your INTERPRETATION of it #BreakingBarriers

43)A man who is POOR yet SURROUNDS himself with POOR people unconsciously REINFORCES the BELIEF that it is OKAY to be POOR #BreakingBarriers

44) When I say LEG, an IMAGE comes 2 your head. When I say MIND, the image of the BRAIN comes to your head yet the BRAIN is NOT the MIND #BreakingBarriers

45) How can you FULLY UNDERSTAND what you do NOT have an IMAGE for? #BreakingBarriers

46) Every EVENT is an OPPORTUNITY to DECIDE to BE who you ARE! The wise, in the face of any event CHOOSE their GRANDEST form #BreakingBarriers

47) We not only CREATE EVENTS but CREATE OURSELVES in the MIDST of the EVENTS by DECIDING who we want to BE and acting accordingly #BreakingBarriers

48) The WISE man makes QUIET the OUTER world, so the INNER WORLD can give him INSIGHT #BreakingBarriers

49) If you do not GO WITHIN, you GO WITHOUT. LACK is a MANIFESTATION of DEPENDENCE on EXTERNAL FACTORS as your SOURCE #BreakingBarriers

50) It’s a WRAP, remember “Its people like us that make it in life!” Hope you enjoyed #BreakingBarriers #BreakingBarriers @dayus4heaven

Appreciate Bankole Williams for this insightful session via #BreakingBarriers on Twitter.

Thanks fam for your support.

Don’t hesitate to comment, share and ask questions.

Host :Adedayo Olabamiji
Twitter : @dayus4heaven
Blog : unleashidea.wordpress.com

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#BreakingBarriers week 9

The question of WHY you on EARTH is for you to have DIRECTION.

The question of WHY you on EARTH helps to know the end from BEGINNING

WHY gives you FOCUS, helps to arrive at the right DESTINATION of a CAUSE.

I challenge you to ASK WHY you on the EARTH, WHY God created YOU

WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How to unravel the mystery behind your WHY on EARTH is a FUNCTION of knowing your PURPOSE

In your PURPOSE is WHY you will either LIVE or EXIST on this EARTH.

Knowing what you are supposed to be doing, that’s your Life Calling and to know what you are supposed to get out of life, that’s your Life Purpose.

One is what you put into life (what you are called to do), the other is what you get out of life (the purpose of it all). Put together, they tell you why you are here

In life I have found that one of the greatest challenge people have in knowing PURPOSE is the PROBLEM of IDENTITY?

You cannot have clear knowledge of WHY you are on this earth if you have not solve the PROBLEM of IDENTITY

Your capacity to influence next GENERATION will also will be thwarted if the PROBLEM of IDENTITY is yet to be solved?

The insights you gain along the way to finding your own answer may uncover what is really going on in your life … and that can be both good and bad.

First, you need to SOLVE that problem and get to execute your WORK (PURPOSE)

Efforts and courage are not enough without purpose and direction.

You can’t live a casual life if you don’t want to be a casualty in Life. You must live for purpose and breathe PURPOSE.

Once you know your PURPOSE, you must be GLOBAL MINDED, no MEDIOCRITY competition.

What does it mean to the world that you are BORN?

When a man EXIST, he makes no IMPACT. When you are LIVING you influence and touch lives.

Your greatness in life is not a FUNCTION of numbers of material things you possess but, numbers of lives you put SMILE on their faces.

Numbers of LIVES touched by you, numbers of SOLUTIONS given to humanity and numbers of people that APPRECIATE God for creating YOU.

Discover your purpose and shift from paradigm of acquisition to SERVE and making lives better.

The greatest place you can immortalize yourself is in the HEART of MEN

How many people appreciate God that you cross their PATHs on earth?

You must seize the opportunity of a LIFETIME in the Lifetime of that opportunity.

There is a REASON why you are on this earth, you must DISCOVER let everyone know you are HERE.

You can’t AFFORD to leave this planet earth without making IMPACT and leaving your own mark.

Every BREATH that leaves you takes life away from you and as such you must live a PURPOSEFUL life.

Probably you need to ask yourself these following vital questions as a LIVING BEING:

1.      What will be missing if I leave this EARTH?

2.      What will be said of ME when I leave this earth? What will be my LEGACY?

3.      What can I do to make this planet EARTH better for GENERATIONS coming behind?

4.      How many people are GRATEFUL that am living every day?

5.      How many live have I TOUCHED?

6.       Maybe I should ask you, what do you LIVE for?

The day I answered those questions above, I started living an impactful life without anyone’s influence.

Great Mother Theresa, Legend Nelson Mandela, Powerful Mahatma Ghandi   and our Savior Lord Jesus Christ Lived for a PURPOSE? What about YOU?

No one will ever remember you are on this earth at a point only your PURPOSE achieved and LEGACY left will speaks for you!

If Africa and Nigeria remain the same then my I have only EXISTED and not LIVED

According to my Mentor 3 things that can help you fulfill you PURPOSE are :1.  Mission (Assignment), 2. Vision & 3. Values (Leagacy, Integrity et al)

What’s your contribution to humanity?

Are you providing solutions or part of problems that needs to be solved?

Everyone has a given chance to live life to the fullest, every moment and memories you make is your choice -Chaz B

His last tweet, dated October 29, 2014 reads: ‘Don’t look for God in the sky, look within your own body. Through you GOD want to touch LIVES.

By Saturday I will be a year older (I Rep. March 5th) and the QUESTIONS of WHY I keep at heart.

On one of my visit to Orphanage home I discovered, the heart of men are closed to us that we can’t afford not make a difference.

In your little corner touch lives, be the reason someone will smile

Show a little kindness even when it is difficult to express.

Greatness and purpose is not in those big things we can see but little things we doesn’t count but do that makes other better.

Be the EYES that sees the POOR, BE the COMFORTER of those in SORROW, BE the HEALER of folks in PAINS

Like the LEGEND Singer, Let’s make this world a BETTER place for HUMANITY.

Don’t be a walking CORPSE, live for PURPOSE and fulfill your ASSIGNMENTS.

Find your PURPOSE and Plug INTO it.

Your PURPOSE was sent before you arrive. IT’s obvious you need to find it and touch LIVES through it.

If each one could reach one, then each one can teach one. What a much more beautiful nation Nigeria would be – Chaz B

The world is waiting for your greatness. See you at the TOP!

Remember with GOD its PEOPLE like US that SUCCEED in LIFE.

Don’t hesitate to share, ask questions and comments.
 
Host : Adedayo Olabamiji
Twitter : @dayus4heaven
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LETTING GO

Posted: March 1, 2016 in Uncategorized

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1. On today’s session of #Breakingbarriersas hosted by @dayus4heaven, i’d be sharing insights on “LETTING GO”. Hope my words connects with you

2. Letting Go simply means moving on from one phase of your life to another for the purpose of change and self-growth… #Breakingbarriers

3. When it comes to letting go, it is harder than it seems because change itself is hard. #Breakingbarriers

4. What if attachment to such thing or people will actually deter our personal self-growth? Change is hard, decisions are too #Breakingbariers

5. Nothing sweeter than what gives us joy. But what if such joy actually is capable of bringing us down?#Breakingbarriers

6. To ‘let go’ sometimes makes us feel like losers because it means giving up what truly we felt we had a right to.#Breakingbarriers

7. But true strength lies in resisting the urge to hold onto things and people that bring us down….#Breakingbarriers

8. We choose to ‘Let go’ by ‘accepting what is’ and letting go of what we think should be, a step forward to our self-growth #Breakingbarriers

9. As we grow and progress in life, a lot of things and people need to be left behind. Not for malice but as a necessity! #Breakingbarriers

10. Sometimes some people cease to add to our personal growth. It is TOXIC to keep latching onto them!#Breakingbarriers

11. Not person that we keep as friends and acquaintances will be able to sustain your progress on the long run. Let them go #Breakingbarriers

12. Yes, you will be hurt, yes you may feel as though you have lost it all, yes you may not know what lies next in store….#Breakingbarriers

13. But you’ll never know how much strength you have inside of you if you fail to cut off ties that are toxic to your purpose #Breakingbarriers

14. Sometimes the changes we want are not the same changes we need to grow and to get closer to our purpose…#Breakingbariers

15. But we shouldn’t marginalize our purpose towards our interest because positivity lies in the evolvement of our selfgrowth #Breakingbarriers

16. As a vivid example, there’s been a time in my life when the hardest decision was letting go….. #Breakingbarriers

 
17. I had been paralyzed by the sweetness of friendships, relationships, circumstances that I had built my identity around. #Breakingbarriers

18. I was immersed with who I was that change seemed impossible. I reveled in mediocrity, not caring for progress/true purpose #Breakingbarriers

19. At that point letting go to me, meant I will become nobody without the image i’d built of myself #Breakingbarriers

20. But I learned- just as the universe changes, people & things change and to truly discover my purpose, letting go was vital #Breakingbarriers

21. At that point, change became deliberate. Though I lost who I thought I was, I appreciate my deliberate selfgrowth#Breakingbarriers

22. When you choose to let go, you discover more about who you are and what you want out of life….and then you go for it #Breakingbarriers

23. There are many reasons we need to let go which i’d be sharing on a few that almost everyone can relate to….#Breakingbarriers

24.  Sometimes we grow apart from people or things that no longer serve our purpose…..friends, acquaintances, relationships#Breakingbarriers

25. No matter how we try to make it work and maintain it, they will always clash with our purpose. Learn to let it go #Breakingbarriers

26. Sometimes we naturally evolve from situations and people. Just as our goals change, some habits & people need to be freed #Breakingbarriers

27. Sometimes we latch onto things & people for FEAR. Fear of losing our identity. This is even more reason to let go! #Breakingbarriers

28. You don’t need anyone’s validation or closeness to affirm who you should be. Letting Go brings you closer to your purpose #Breakingbarriers

29. It is mental slavery to cling to things that have stopped serving it’s purpose in your life.#Breakingbarriers

30. Sometimes letting go means choosing to put a stop to another’s negativity over you. Cynical friendships are toxic #Letgo #Breakingbarriers

31. Anyone that does not add to your progress, learning to let go is affirming your inner sense of purpose. Just Keep moving #Breakingbarriers

32. Your future, hopes & dreams should never be tied down to anybody! The strength lies inside of you to decide at any moment your direction. #BreakingBarriers

33. Stop feeling miserable for people’s rejection. Quit doubting your own capability because someone didn’t appreciate you #Breakingbarriers

34. Quit chasing after things that don’t deserve your energy. Learn to love who you are & who you’re constantly evolving into #Breakingbarriers

35. When you love yourself enough to let go, u’d be amazed how much more there is to you. There’s no limit to your capability! #Breakingbarriers

36. Learning to face up to your fear means letting your courage and character to face whatever comes after #Breakingbarriers

37. Yes, personal growth and change can be uncomfortable, but nothing yet as painful as staying stuck where you don’t belong #Breakingbarriers

38. Finally, the moment we learn to face our lives squarely, we stop going round in circles #Breakingbarriers#Lettinggo

39. Thanks for the time and the opportunity to share on ‘Letting go’. I appreciate & look forward to sharing with you again on #Breakingbarriers

Thanks for reading! !  Don’t hesitate to read, comment and share with your loved ones. This week I will be facilitating #BreakingBarriers on Wednesday. Time is 7pm.

Host : Adedayo Olabamiji Twitter: @dayusheaven
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